Why do women fall for nutcases?

[Zopiclone bandit]

I think some women have no real interests (in terms of hobbies, life-projects and so on),
that makes them terribly afraid of being BORED and they live with the need of having someone who makes their life INTENSE in terms of a emotional rollercoaster,
the more void a woman are, the more likely it's that she needs that kind of men around.
I honestly don't buy the "hot sex" thing because you know, there's people who fuck well enough that are not criminals. It's more like a prototype of dominant men, that surely can "put in their place" people, including those women who are still clinging on the "power struggle" as a means of living a emotional relationship.
I mean, once the woman (or man, actually) surpass that way of understanding relationships (the power struggle tug of war) then things surely stabilize and they mainly search for peace and understanding more than a emotional rollercoaster.
Surely some men look and behave very "unmanly" and that's a thing women hate because those men cannot deliver a sense of "grounding" and probably are very unattractive sexually talking, but there's more things to this....

You are a smart person, I Respect this post 100%.
You speak a Truth I feel in my "Soul" but I gotta ask here are you female?

 

[qwertygina]

I'm not joking here folks, I'd name the guy but it's best for my health I don't.
A friend sent me voicenotes from a person who's serving over 35 years for multiple murders & a self confessed Contract Killer as he is giving her "life advice" as her friend is actually set to marry this guy!!!!

I looked the man up online and his famous, his convicted for 5 Contract killings but openly speaks about various other people who have vanished, of course these people just disappeared off the planet & deffo weren't shot in the head or set on fire you understand.

WTF makes women fall in love with these kind of men?

Many different reasons. I can come up like 5 pretty easily

Attraction to them bad boys .. cuz well they're bad boys...

Like attracts like. They recognize that same crazy in each other ( in mean crazy in the bestest possible way)

Well there's 2
I'm too stoned to type ass anymore..

 

[Zopiclone bandit]

Many different reasons. I can come up like 5 pretty easily

Attraction to them bad boys .. cuz well they're bad boys...

Like attracts like. They recognize that same crazy in each other ( in mean crazy in the bestest possible way)

Well there's 2
I'm too stoned to type ass anymore..

 

[assclass]

Low IQ

 

[G_Chem]

But the possibility of both still fucks with your heads, right?

The ultimate truth here.

-GC

 

[fastandbulbous]

What happens?
He end up between two pieces of fried bread covered in HP Sauce?

If he becomes a tasty sandwich I say people should celebrate.

That'll do pig

 

[Neuroborean]

You are a smart person, I Respect this post 100%.
You speak a Truth I feel in my "Soul" but I gotta ask here are you female?

No. I'm not a female, but I've experienced different relationships, with enough women
Because of several "factors" I've developed co-dependency-like and "white-knight" attitudes during my adolescence and young adult (college) years.
I ended up with "problematic women" so I sadly "failed" more than once due to not really acknowledging what was going on.
I think I know myself a bit more lately, I discovered the core issues why I became like that and now I can pinpoint what it's going on, which women are (or could be) good for me and how my attitudes must develop.
The most important issue: not getting close to people with BPD (which in some way or another runs in my family).

In a way it's like you're wired for some type of relationships and your "baseline" needs to change A LOT to be able not to gather/attract/be attracted by the wrong type of person. That same stuff happens to women too, but in different ways most times.
There's also light-hearted, empathetic, people-pleasing women who are co-dependent. I just don't usually meet them for whatever reasons, but I guess they are as unhealthy as a co-dependent male.

 

[stardust10]

Protection?
I think a contract killer is a step too far though (for me anyway)

 

[AngelsandFairiesarereal]

Any idea what the agenda is?

Yea for a lot of people locked up they can get the person outside to send them stuff, put money on their books ect. For the person on the outside a lot of times it’s for psychological reasons like loneliness ect. … having someone to write to or talk to. Or some guys will do it for sexual reasons like getting the girls to send them pictures & stuff.

But.. maybe there’s some people out there that are truly in love?

(That’s what I mean for agendas though, like how this sort of thing happens & and pans out a lot) … but like I said I don’t really know the whole contract killer thing I really couldn’t imagine

 

[qwertygina]

Supposed? Like there's an element of doubt?
Looking for a man who would be special forces material, but gets weepie at the end of 'Babe'?

Well yeah

 

[fastandbulbous]

Well yeah

There's mysterious and unpredictable. That's the difference between unexpected cuteness and Broadmoor candidates...

 

[Kellsee]

Because normal is boring. Apparently narccisistic socio paths make me horny.


Actually I'd love to have a preacher that's a freak in the sheets.

Do they make those?

 

[Burnt Offerings]

Religious people who are also sexual deviants? I don't think I've ever heard of such a thing

 

[fastandbulbous]

Religious people who are also sexual deviants? I don't think I've ever heard of such a thing

Utter blasphemy!

 

[axe battler]

@xtcgrrrl hits the nail on the head again. If only she was single... And not in AUSTRALIA

 

[deficiT]

This is the ideal male body. You might not like it but this is what peak performance looks like.

 

[Juicewrldfan]

There’s another side to this as well I think. It’s the fact that they are kinda at the women’s mercy because they are locked up and can’t go anywhere.

And I know someone said that then the women know that their man won’t be cheating on them, but my understanding is 99 percent of men in prisons are still getting laid, just ask @Arnold if you don’t believe me.

 

[Foreigner]

IMO anybody who is attracted to unstable people when there are stable options available, it's because of how they were raised. If they grew up in an environment where their support people were nuts, then that's what "love" will look like to them. Men are attracted to nutcases too, I've seen it.

 

[F.U.B.A.R.]

Usually most women grow out of their “bad boy” phase at some point. That’s when dad bods become appealing lol. At that point, we’re looking for stability, not just sizzling hot sex.

Fuckin sods law that.

When us blokes develop dad bods, all we want is sizzling hot sex, not stability.

Why are the sexes so out of sync?

 

[xtcgrrrl]

Fuckin sods law that.

When us blokes develop dad bods, all we want is sizzling hot sex, not stability.

Why are the sexes so out of sync?

If you get lucky, you’ll find someone who LOVES sex in their 30s and 40s. Sex drive is individual. As for me, I’m glad I found someone who can keep up with my sexual needs (I’m quite needy in this department )