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Why do women fall for nutcases?

Zopiclone bandit

Zopiclone bandit

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I'm not joking here folks, I'd name the guy but it's best for my health I don't.
A friend sent me voicenotes from a person who's serving over 35 years for multiple murders & a self confessed Contract Killer as he is giving her "life advice" as her friend is actually set to marry this guy!!!!

I looked the man up online and his famous, his convicted for 5 Contract killings but openly speaks about various other people who have vanished, of course these people just disappeared off the planet & deffo weren't shot in the head or set on fire you understand.

WTF makes women fall in love with these kind of men?
 
ageingpartyfiend said:
thrill of danger/edginess , protection factor, bragging rights, sexual promise, shallowness, to look 'good', the list goes on...
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The difference between a "bad boy" & being "edgy" compared to killing people for cash, links to all kinds of shady groups etc is quite extreme in my opinion. The Skinny who was a female contract killer for the Los Zeta cartel was so sexy looking but I'd never want to be within 100 miles of her as she's a fucking nutcase who kills people.

You wouldn't feel safe around those kind of folks, you can't trust them 1% IMHO.
 
fastandbulbous said:
But the possibility of both still fucks with your heads, right? 😁
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The key thing here is to be just enough “bad boy” to be exciting, whilst being simultaneously someone you think would be a good daddy. Spontaneous AND stable. Sexy AND soothing. If you can both absolutely destroy her in bed and hold her hair back when she’s puking over the toilet, you’ve got it made. Also at least PRETEND to listen to her when she’s talking about stuff you have no interest in. But I’m giving away too much here, we’re supposed to be all mysterious and unpredictable here 😜
 
xtcgrrrl said:
The key thing here is to be just enough “bad boy” to be exciting, whilst being simultaneously someone you think would be a good daddy. Spontaneous AND stable. Sexy AND soothing. If you can both absolutely destroy her in bed and hold her hair back when she’s puking over the toilet, you’ve got it made. Also at least PRETEND to listen to her when she’s talking about stuff you have no interest in. But I’m giving away too much here, we’re supposed to be all mysterious and unpredictable here 😜
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Supposed? Like there's an element of doubt? 🤣
Looking for a man who would be special forces material, but gets weepie at the end of 'Babe'?
 
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xtcgrrrl said:
The key thing here is to be just enough “bad boy” to be exciting
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I've never quite got his concept, maybe it's my personality type (INTP if anyone cares) but what do you define & label as a bad boy?
We talking a West Ham football supporting type, some rapper with a Grill made from diamonds who sells MDMA on Tour or a guy who works for Mexican cartels?

What's the attraction to this type? How do you picture your future with them?
Is this a kind of "Princess looking for her White Knight" trait?

Sounds way too much effort for not much reward to me, sex isn't that much of a payment for a relationship with a very needy person IMHO.
 
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Zopiclone bandit said:
I've never quite got his concept, maybe it's my personality type (INTP if anyone cares) but what do you define & label as a bad boy?
We talking a West Ham football supporting type, some rapper with a Grill made from diamonds who sells MDMA on Tour or a guy who works for Mexican cartels?

What's the attraction to this type? How do you picture your future with them?
Is this a kind of "Princess looking for her White Knight" trait?

Sounds way too much effort for not much reward to me, sex isn't that much of a payment for a relationship with a very needy person IMHO.
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I think some women have no real interests (in terms of hobbies, life-projects and so on),
that makes them terribly afraid of being BORED and they live with the need of having someone who makes their life INTENSE in terms of a emotional rollercoaster,
the more void a woman are, the more likely it's that she needs that kind of men around.
I honestly don't buy the "hot sex" thing because you know, there's people who fuck well enough that are not criminals. It's more like a prototype of dominant men, that surely can "put in their place" people, including those women who are still clinging on the "power struggle" as a means of living a emotional relationship.
I mean, once the woman (or man, actually) surpass that way of understanding relationships (the power struggle tug of war) then things surely stabilize and they mainly search for peace and understanding more than a emotional rollercoaster.
Surely some men look and behave very "unmanly" and that's a thing women hate because those men cannot deliver a sense of "grounding" and probably are very unattractive sexually talking, but there's more things to this....
 
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