It’s not that I wanna harm anyone.

[Jabberwocky]

It’s the fact that I didn’t have a dad to impress, so now I have an ill conceived notion that beating someone into a coma will give me the “manliness” I deserve. Plus I hate the world, because my relationship didn’t work out. Can’t hit a girl, and I don’t hope I have an encounter with a man cause there is a lot larger and meaner then me. But with this hatred in my heart. I fear for the person that interjects their rude ass remarks.

 

[BK38]

Why don't you look into getting a therapist and/or getting some anger management counseling? By your own admission it's an "ill conceived notion" and obviously stems from a place of insecurity.

 

[deficiT]

A lot of guys are taught from young age that Anger is the only emotion we're supposed to express. So a lot of us have bad tempers.

Just try and keep in mind that even if you did hurt someone, it's not gonna make you feel better in the long run, and you're likely to get in trouble for it so you wouldn't be doing yourself any favors.

 

[Specified]

can't hit a girl? I say this to everyone. Why not try an Escort or Brothel? or you after a gf?

 

[Jabberwocky]

can't hit a girl? I say this to everyone. Why not try an Escort or Brothel?

I don't know are you joking but this is really bad advice. If this is harm reduction forum I don't believe that advising someone how to physically harm another person is appropriate. Or maybe I have misread your post.

 

[Specified]

I don't know are you joking but this is really bad advice. If this is harm reduction forum I don't believe that advising someone how to physically harm another person is appropriate. Or maybe I have misread your post.

No he said he can't hit a girl (Assuming that's what you meant by physically harm someone) so I said why not try an Escort or a Brothel

 

[Jabberwocky]

I think he really meant that he wants physically harm someone to get his frustrations out that way.
I don't think that he wants to "hit" on a girl in a sensual way. That is the reason I wanted you to clarify as your post could be grossly misunderstood.

 

[Specified]

I think he really meant that he wants physically harm someone to get his frustrations out that way.
I don't think that he wants to "hit" a girl in a sensual way. That is the reason I wanted you to clarify as your post could be grossly misunderstood.

ok I thought he wanted a girl not to hit a girl in that way

 

[Deleted member 521610]

as somebody who enjoys unleashing pent up violence upon people who truly deserve it. Its not worth it and makes you a slave to human desires and the past and the legal consequences plus if you don't know how to box or do grappling and been in many acutal fights you will end up been the one getting smashed.

I try my best to move on from violence but its in my genetics my grand pa beat up so many people around the world after world war 2 sailing with merchant navy also killed somebody in a bar fight in south america and fled then became religious and regretted his past life of violence.

I would suggest finding a outlet to express yourself go out far in nature and scream all that anger out and smash some branches against trees and rocks. Violence vs other people will only ever hurt yourself more. I try my best to move on from it but im a slave to it and if something really ticks me off in life i truly get bloodlust. But i never will lay a finger on women only fucking cowards do that. I also will never harm a animal but if some asshole wants to fight ill gladly partake in mutual combat something about it really is a addiction that thrill that feeling of power that animalistic adrenaline flowing with some of fear. But its not worth man you are a good peaceful guy its better spread love and light and compassion.

Leave violence to the animals who can't control themselves any further.

 

[tubgirl.jpg]

It’s the fact that I didn’t have a dad to impress, so now I have an ill conceived notion that beating someone into a coma will give me the “manliness” I deserve. Plus I hate the world, because my relationship didn’t work out. Can’t hit a girl, and I don’t hope I have an encounter with a man cause there is a lot larger and meaner then me. But with this hatred in my heart. I fear for the person that interjects their rude ass remarks.

I had a dad to impress; it didn't make things better, trust me friend...

I read in the 48 Laws thread you made that you'd been reading into Jung, so that's why I ask the following;
- do you feel like this is some shadow-integrating you need to do?
- have you ever been forced to explore your capacity of cruelty and violence?
- has your malice been put to the test?


I don't think one should reject violence all-together;
a good person is not a harmless one incapable of violence;
a good person is someone who's very capable of violence, but chose not to use it.
a virtuous person is not a harmless one; a virtuous person is a monster that don't act monstrously.

It's a dangerous philosophy saying that being peaceful and harmless is a good thing.
If you don't have the capacity for cruelty, that will make you a victim of those who are.
Be capable of malevolence, but have that capability under control.

I can recommend muay thai, for example.
Contrary to what people might think, they don't teach you to squander someone; well, they do, but what they really teach you is the confidence that will keep these kind of intrusive thoughts away.
Or get a punching bag. I think that's the best thing I've bought in my entire life. You smack the shit out of a 35kg+ bag for 10 minutes, and your aggressions will be water and you'll be GoreTex.

And I understand the frustration of wanting to smash something into pieces, to cave in someones face - but don't instigate anything.
Being violent for the sake of it only grows resentment, which makes those impulses harder to control.

Also, there's nothing less manly than aggression for the sake of it - being able to control that primitive urge, that's a sign of strong character, of a strong person.

 

[tubgirl.jpg]

as somebody who enjoys unleashing pent up violence upon people who truly deserve it. Its not worth it and makes you a slave to human desires and the past and the legal consequences plus if you don't know how to box or do grappling and been in many acutal fights you will end up been the one getting smashed.

I try my best to move on from violence but its in my genetics my grand pa beat up so many people around the world after world war 2 sailing with merchant navy also killed somebody in a bar fight in south america and fled then became religious and regretted his past life of violence.

I would suggest finding a outlet to express yourself go out far in nature and scream all that anger out and smash some branches against trees and rocks. Violence vs other people will only ever hurt yourself more. I try my best to move on from it but im a slave to it and if something really ticks me off in life i truly get bloodlust. But i never will lay a finger on women only fucking cowards do that. I also will never harm a animal but if some asshole wants to fight ill gladly partake in mutual combat something about it really is a addiction that thrill that feeling of power that animalistic adrenaline flowing with some of fear. But its not worth man you are a good peaceful guy its better spread love and light and compassion.

Leave violence to the animals who can't control themselves any further.

This. All of it.
The thing is, that for most people who exercise violence frequently it quickly becomes a fix, because (in my opinion) nothing beats the rush of inflicting injury to those that deserve it.
But it's a very, very narrow path, like walking on a razor.

I used to be flatmate with a friend, and we'd beat the crap out of each other while drunk - consensual violence.

 

[Jabberwocky]

I had a dad to impress; it didn't make things better, trust me friend...

I read in the 48 Laws thread you made that you'd been reading into Jung, so that's why I ask the following;
- do you feel like this is some shadow-integrating you need to do?
- have you ever been forced to explore your capacity of cruelty and violence?
- has your malice been put to the test?


I don't think one should reject violence all-together;
a good person is not a harmless one incapable of violence;
a good person is someone who's very capable of violence, but chose not to use it.
a virtuous person is not a harmless one; a virtuous person is a monster that don't act monstrously.

It's a dangerous philosophy saying that being peaceful and harmless is a good thing.
If you don't have the capacity for cruelty, that will make you a victim of those who are.
Be capable of malevolence, but have that capability under control.

I can recommend muay thai, for example.
Contrary to what people might think, they don't teach you to squander someone; well, they do, but what they really teach you is the confidence that will keep these kind of intrusive thoughts away.
Or get a punching bag. I think that's the best thing I've bought in my entire life. You smack the shit out of a 35kg+ bag for 10 minutes, and your aggressions will be water and you'll be GoreTex.

And I understand the frustration of wanting to smash something into pieces, to cave in someones face - but don't instigate anything.
Being violent for the sake of it only grows resentment, which makes those impulses harder to control.

Also, there's nothing less manly than aggression for the sake of it - being able to control that primitive urge, that's a sign of strong character, of a strong person.

Soon as I get to palm beach I’m getting in muay I don’t wanna hurt anyone who don’t wanna be. But put me in a cage instead of a dog. All the stepfathers that choked me and left me homeless. I’ll send them a tape of what I coulda done but chose not to outta mercy.

 

[Jabberwocky]

This. All of it.
The thing is, that for most people who exercise violence frequently it quickly becomes a fix, because (in my opinion) nothing beats the rush of inflicting injury to those that deserve it.
But it's a very, very narrow path, like walking on a razor.

I used to be flatmate with a friend, and we'd beat the crap out of each other while drunk - consensual violence.

I’m not into hurting anyone I’m friends with. More so the ones that bully me. But I ain’t doing shit violent until I have someone that helps me learn to control it cause when it starts.. I fear for the person I encounter. No matter their training, don’t bully me and I won’t bully you. But I’m tired of being “shorty” that I was called in school but most of those people have ODed hahahahahhahaha I should piss on their grave but I got stocks to buy