Sorry jess, wasn’t my intent. An anecdotal view for sure, and just the way I see the world, that should have been a disclaimer. My ex was very independent and free thinking. After rereading I see what ur saying and apologize. But on the social pressure bit, that’s the truth as far as I see it
OT; are you still out of country?
That's OK, I'm probably a little on edge what with the election happening.
If you mean do I still live in australia, yes.
Tbh, in spite of wanting to move back for most of the past several years, my feelings have changed a lot since trump was elected and ESPECIALLY since covid19.
For years I felt frustrated with Australian cultural political views on things like freedoms and such. But since covid19 I've started wondering if I was wrong, if maybe the more Australian perspective of a more collectivist system may actually be better in practice.
I mean it's hard not to look at Australia's success at saving people's lives and America's total failure to prevent hundreds of thousands of American deaths, and not feel like our way is wrong.
It's not even just lives, economically the more American ways seem much less sensible, in spite of historically being more aligned to my beliefs.
I dunno. I just can't help but feel like maybe the hyper individualist, rights focused philosophy Americans generally hold, that for the longest time I wholeheartedly believed in, may in practice be very self destructive.