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whats the scariest thing that can happen to a man?

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MrsGamp

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Just pondering this and wondering why my ex was so violent, and all I can think of is that he was terribly frightened by possibility of me being "above" him in any way, even just in trivial contexts like me winning scrabble or (very occasionally)me winning chess.
He wasn a bad sport with his mates, ever. But he was genuinely terrified of me having an advantage or a win, and he worked so hard at always being in control - he didn't just "decide" stuff as it came along. Rather he had this distinctly male way of tricking me into a vague "vibe" that even if I occasionally got to decide which film to watch, this was only because he had generously "decided that I could make a decision".
 
But yes am interested in gender related fears....
A big feminine fear of mine used to be deemed ugly or unattractive by a man. Even the plainest, least desirable men could make me feel sooooo ugly and ashamed of being ugly. I grew outta that though. But not u til I was ten years out to f high school!
 
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edit: goddamnit I intended to make a lounge post, ah whatever, perfect for slr too.
 
I had a dream im elementary school that my gym teacher was chopping dicks off and i was next in line. I guess that's my biggest gender related fear? I love my penis and the feelings it can give me.
 
madness00 said:
I had a dream im elementary school that my gym teacher was chopping dicks off and i was next in line. I guess that's my biggest gender related fear? I love my penis and the feelings it can give me.
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Men seem absolutely obsessed with their dicks. Like...to a truly excessive degree.

The closest thing I can think of as something even remotely similar that I've experienced, is I have occasionally dreamed that I was pregnant.
 
Oddly men have been the champions of tolerance for diverse sexual preferences ... but the powerful insight that sexual activity means so much more than what you do behind closed doors with another consenting adult ...the dead end libertarian notion that "I'm not bothering Mr Classic Straight Man, I'm not entitled to audit your fun, so why don't you just run along and FAHGEDDA about me ... and btw I forgive you for making my life hell as soon as you rumbled me ...all is forgiven. just forget about me."
The last thing gay activists wanted was the pseudo favour of being IGNORED.
We're Here!
We're Queer!
GET USED TO IT!
These men no doubt adored their own dicks as well as other people's dicks. But they kept their dicks out of it when it came to calling the straight world on its bullshit entitlement to torment queers ...
I have not seen any gay male porn, but enough straight male porn to draw this conclusion:
The real star of "straight male porn" is ludicrously huge dicks. They don't do anything that impressive or original.
Penetrate/in and out/penetrate/in and out/ repeat ... until the money shot:
Even the most fanatical female fans of penises, including myself, are capable of being bored to death by the limited repertoire of the Dick.
Straight men on the other hand are NEVER bored by watching dicks doing the same things. Indeed they are so mesmerised by the penis's cretinous antics that they are lost for words.
I've had the hurtful experience of being made to watch porn for purposes of foreplay. Was I conceited in assuming that I ought to be the main event?
He was fucking me, but watching the porno penis with ardent, complete absorption. My breasts, hips, arse and other things straight men allegedly rate highly couldn't compete with the Porno Penis...this was a deal breaker.
 
er, oh dear? have I offended you? your comments about refusing to change or wear "masks" or be anything less or more than the "real you" seem like an irate answer to an offensive or inappropriate suggestion of mine...that I haven't made...
schizopath said:
Hmm. Having to give up who I am and start acting in a way that contradicts my beliefs and shit. I dont like wearing a kind of mask anywhere or for any reason.
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MrsGamp said:
er, oh dear? have I offended you? your comments about refusing to change or wear "masks" or be anything less or more than the "real you" seem like an irate answer to an offensive or inappropriate suggestion of mine...that I haven't made...
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It is impossible for me to have gotten offended from your posts as I didnt even read your posts

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well its impossible to mQUOTE="schizopath, post: 14837314, member: 521734"]
It is impossible for me to have gotten offended from your posts as I didnt even read your posts

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But no, you didnt offend me. You couldnt offend me basically. People have tried but nowadays they simply are unable to offend me anymore. Unless they say that bupre is a shit drug iirc.
 
Im sorry I had a good laugh at that. But it works so well for me. I stopped expecting anything at all and compared to no effect it works just fine.
 
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