Is it just an E bond???

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I liked this guy for a little while and then we ended up doing E together(it was my first time) After that our relationship (not while on E) was wicked. I felt like I could talk to him about anything and we connected in ways that I never have with anyone else. We were so close it scared me. We did E a few more times together - everytime was great. Regardless of how many other people were there with us, it always seemed like it was just me n him. We were in our own little world rolling or not. Anyways, I guess the closer we got the more scared he got and he bailed. He kept talking about getting hurt and just wanting to be friends. Now we never even talk. I rolled a couple of weeks ago and he was there. Things were like they always were. Just me and him. I miss him so much and I don't know if what I'm feeling is real or if it's the E controlling me?!?!
We liked each other before the E even came along, but I'm worried that it may have taken over after that. Can anyone else advise or relate?
 
No it wasn't just an E-bond, it was more, the problem wasn't with the E, it was with him, he sounds like he has some issues to work out. He said that he didn't want to get hurt, he might have had someone do something to him in the past, such as a serious relationship he was really involved in, and the other girl not as serious or something like that. Try really talking to him, call him up, and explain to him how you feel. I hope everything works out, I know how you feel, the same thing happened to me.
Later
-Chris
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"We are pagens, we worship great walls of sound."
-Unknown Raver
 
Thx.
You are so right - in the beginning he kept worrying about me running back to my ex (we had broken up a few months before) cause he got burnt by this girl he really liked. I guess they were together but she went back to her ex and he really got hurt. I understood that that would hold him back, but I prooved myself to him - he knew I wouldn't do that. I know deep down that it wasn't just the E, but I can't help but think that that's all it may have been for him.
 
Be careful of relationships developing over drugs. The first while it will be great cause you are really into each other, but after a little while, the magic and electricity you two felt while on E will start tp subside and since ecstasy will start to drive your life if you do it too often then it will also drive the relationship. This is a problem because the drug affects every person in a unique way and what is great for you may turn out over time to be sour for him. It doesn't matter how the relationship was before taking pills, but I know from experience that ecstasy will give you a completely different frame of reference for the relationship. He could have been suffering from some mild depression which E often brings on. I get depressed for like a week after I drop sometimes. You really should call him and start discussing the relationship outside of the drug use and get his feelings. Just be open, honest and relaxing to him.
the doctor
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If it seems as if I can roll harder than others, it is only because I have rolled on the shoulders of giants
 
Well If i were u i'd talk to him and ask him if he felt old feelings comin back. U never know u just could of needed a brake. Maybe he missed u as much as u missed him. The best way to find out is just call him up and talk.
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As long as the beats pumpin , I'll be there !!!!
 
E doesnt make false feelings, it releases feelings you have deep inside
thats what i believe
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"whatever it is i think i
see, becomes a tootsie
roll to me"
 
Okay - that's that!! I will call him tomorrow and settle this once and for all.
Thank you all!
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