I've ways found this effect on people who take opiates to be so strange. I'm asexual, cannot orgasm (I can ejaculate/have sex but feel nothing), and yet almost every single time I inject heroin I get a hardon. It isn't some like random chance or anything either, like clockwork about 1-2 minutes after I IV I always get an erection. I wonder why everyone one struggles with a it while my body does not.
I was nodding out while writing that, so I apologize for spelling errors/random seemingly nonsensical word placement.Would you mind elaborating on that? I was always under the impression asexual meant you weren't attracted to either sex. Is that accurate?
I was nodding out while writing that, so I apologize for spelling errors/random seemingly nonsensical word placement.
That is correct. I don't look at men and think "man that's a smoking hot body, I should go talk to him!", and I have never looked at a women and went " damn she's hot, I'd totally fuck her if I had the chance!". I just have no sexual desires towards anyone regardless of sex, and even if I do have sex not only is it awkward because I feel nothing towards the other person, but since I'm also anorgasmic I literally get nothing from the experience. I'm not sure if it's due to a chemical imbalance in my brain or something, I have no clue. That's just how I am unfortunately. Unfortunately, because, it has also been the cause of a great deal of depression and anxiety in the past
I have not experimented with both sexes. Like I said I don't get anything out of it, so I have no desire or intent to experiment with same-sex either. I guess I could be compared to dexter, albeit less psychopathic. But yeah, it has taken a huge toll on me and has caused a lot of depression but there's nothing that can be done to change it. Anorgasmic has nothing to do with ejaculation. Ejaculation and orgasm are two entirely different things. And no, sex isn't any different high because I still don't feel anything towards the other person.Haha yeah that explanation makes much more sense. Wow I'm sorry man they does seem like it could take a toll on someone. So is it safe to assume you have experimented with both sexes? I don't know if you are familiar with the show Dexter, but I guess he was asexual too among other things. Anorgasmic means you don't ejaculate or you can but it doesn't give you the good feeling?
That is so strange that heroin gave you erections. I guess it could also make sex for you less awkward being high and all.
no reason to write UNFORTUNATELY; you are you, man. do your thing. all that matters.I was nodding out while writing that, so I apologize for spelling errors/random seemingly nonsensical word placement.
That is correct. I don't look at men and think "man that's a smoking hot body, I should go talk to him!", and I have never looked at a women and went " damn she's hot, I'd totally fuck her if I had the chance!". I just have no sexual desires towards anyone regardless of sex, and even if I do have sex not only is it awkward because I feel nothing towards the other person, but since I'm also anorgasmic I literally get nothing from the experience. I'm not sure if it's due to a chemical imbalance in my brain or something, I have no clue. That's just how I am unfortunately. Unfortunately, because, it has also been the cause of a great deal of depression and anxiety in the past
being obvious of oblivious? there is such thing as asexual, ya know!? have you not heard of it?! well, there is a name for a reason but counseling could never hurt anybody.Hope I'm not being obvious, but have you contacted a physician concerning your asexuality? Since it is causing you to self-medicate, you might want to look into it. A major university attached to a med school might be a good place to start. If you have tried the doctor route, was it discouraging? Hate to say it, but many psychiatrists/doctors/psychologists don't know their asses from a hole in the ground. Sometimes, you have to visit several before you find anyone that can help you. Good luck to you.
I was literally just about to mention that. It isn't something that can be fixed with therapy, it's how I was born and how I am. Just gotta live with it ya know? Who knows, maybe he's right and it caused me to self medicate, but honestly who cares. There's not a drug in the world that can change it, just like there's no straight pill for homosexuals.Someone for whom asexuality has been the norm since childhood probably wouldn't benefit from any kind of therapy. It's like suggesting therapy to change the sexuality of someone who is gay or lesbian. It ain't happening. That's how they were born, that is their natural state.
I could be wrong on this particular scenario, but I know FOR SURE that it wouldn't work if we were talking about using therapy to turn someone that's gay into being straight, which is a heinous act of intolerance, has been disavowed by the AMA, and only advocated by right wing/religious fucktards.