my father believes that to make a garden, you must first eradicate nature. when the tomatoes got aphids, i was trying to figure out what would banish them without upsetting the other bugs. he offered me various sprays, saying, 'this will kill all the bugs'. he couldn't process what i was trying to do. i've also heard him reminisce about the days of DDT - he had a bag squirrel away for years after the ban, tried to use it to poison rabbits (useless). it's a different mindset. i should write a book. my peppers die from the blight every year. well, his did - mine won't. i didn't go to grad school for epidemiology for shit.