there's this girl in my class that I met and we became friends. She has nerdy interests and is kind of shy but quirky. I think she likes me, but maybe just as a friend? She has a ton of nerd guy friends following her around all the time because of her interests and personality that makes her more approachable to those types of guys.
I got her number and we studied together a couple times. But I noticed that I'm always the one initiating conversations with her and asking her to study with me. When waiting for class, she would just walk past me if i'm talking to someone else, or even if i'm sitting by myself. And bear in mind i've been in her house and had dinner with her family so I would think we're on a friendly enough level where she would at least say hi. Stuff like that kind of offended me so I began to just talk to other girls in the class and not approach her or talk to her until she talks to me. She never really did, but the moment I talk to her after a couple days of no interaction she would give off signals like she really enjoyed talking to me? wtf.
Like.. is she just nervous or does she not like me? I finally asked her to study with me again after a long time of not hanging out together, and we got along really well. When she was quizzing me by covering my notes with her hand to see if I could answer without looking, I tried to pull some flirty move by putting my hand on top of hers so that I could move her hand so i can see the answers, but she pulled her hand away really fast lol. But then later on when i went to the cafeteria with her to get food, i told her i changed my mind because none of the food looked appealing, and then she said that she had a car and we could drive somewhere. But class was about to start and I told her i didn't want to cut class. That's some major mixed signals though. Or maybe the signal is clear that she likes hanging out with me, but she isn't attracted to me sexually.
After that I didn't text her or interact with her again because I was waiting for her to text me first. That didn't work out because she never initiates even though I was hoping she would. After a week of no talking I finally texted her something silly and she straight up ignored me. It's been 13 hours. She never ignored my text before. I always see her glued to her phone so I know how much she loves texting haha.
i know this is some petty high school bullshit. we're actually in college though. but i feel really down about this. I can't tell if she ignored me because she just doesn't give a fuck, or if she ignored me because she was hurt that I didn't ask her to hang out again and maybe i still have a chance.
I got her number and we studied together a couple times. But I noticed that I'm always the one initiating conversations with her and asking her to study with me. When waiting for class, she would just walk past me if i'm talking to someone else, or even if i'm sitting by myself. And bear in mind i've been in her house and had dinner with her family so I would think we're on a friendly enough level where she would at least say hi. Stuff like that kind of offended me so I began to just talk to other girls in the class and not approach her or talk to her until she talks to me. She never really did, but the moment I talk to her after a couple days of no interaction she would give off signals like she really enjoyed talking to me? wtf.
Like.. is she just nervous or does she not like me? I finally asked her to study with me again after a long time of not hanging out together, and we got along really well. When she was quizzing me by covering my notes with her hand to see if I could answer without looking, I tried to pull some flirty move by putting my hand on top of hers so that I could move her hand so i can see the answers, but she pulled her hand away really fast lol. But then later on when i went to the cafeteria with her to get food, i told her i changed my mind because none of the food looked appealing, and then she said that she had a car and we could drive somewhere. But class was about to start and I told her i didn't want to cut class. That's some major mixed signals though. Or maybe the signal is clear that she likes hanging out with me, but she isn't attracted to me sexually.
After that I didn't text her or interact with her again because I was waiting for her to text me first. That didn't work out because she never initiates even though I was hoping she would. After a week of no talking I finally texted her something silly and she straight up ignored me. It's been 13 hours. She never ignored my text before. I always see her glued to her phone so I know how much she loves texting haha.
i know this is some petty high school bullshit. we're actually in college though. but i feel really down about this. I can't tell if she ignored me because she just doesn't give a fuck, or if she ignored me because she was hurt that I didn't ask her to hang out again and maybe i still have a chance.
