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Women who date guys who live in their car...

psychlopath

psychlopath

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Would any woman in their right mind date someone who lives in their car? I haven't gone down on a girl in years... I'm thinking about lieing or something because I'm tired of waiting until I have all of the things I need to make a girl happy in every way. I'm very picky now and have this fear that if I found the right girl for me that I would loose her permanently because I'm not prepared to give her everything she needs. Financially I couldn't satisfy most women nor would I be able to satisfy their need for physical security. The last girl I had a relationship with wouldn't let me go down on her which led to our relationships demise.
 
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I guess it depends on the car.

I bet these women were well up for a bloke to go down on them all night long
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Not so much with this dude
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Hate to be this person but no, I wouldn't date a guy who slept in his car. I suppose if there was a good reason for a 23 year old (or older) to be living in his car, maybe. But it'd have to be a good reason.

I don't think it'd be as difficult to find someone for a one night stand though.
 
Your question has way too many variables to really be able to answer...

Like, why are you living in your car? Because you can't get your life together or because you are an adventurous rogue who goes from place to place to gain awesome experiences?

It all really just depends on the girl. Can you find a girl to hook up with to fulfill your immediate need for sexual gratification? Yeah, I'm sure you could.

Will you find a girl to have a meaningful relationship with? Maybe, depends on the girl. Which do you want?

And that goes back to why you are living in your car? If the answer is that your life is just not together right now, then you would be WAY better of ignoring your sex drive and channeling that energy into getting yourself back together.
 
Ahhh, yeah I think it's going to be tough to find a girl to stick around and get to know you once she find out you live in your car. I mean, if somebody knew you really well already they could probably look past that, but that's a big red flag for girls and most wouldn't even get to the point of knowing you well enough to be okay with it.

You should focus more on bettering your own situation first before worrying about getting a girl.
 
The bit I dont understand is: why is going down on a girl the big issue here? If your living out of your car OP then your problems run alot deeper then not getting your tongue sticky.
 
Droppersneck said:
Id say the majority of BL female posters have dated a guy that lived in their car.
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Seriously, do you really think so? (or are you just trying to make the OP feel better? ;) ). Im really curious about this, what is your reasoning behind that statement? I personally have never dated anyone who lived in their car..at least not that I know of...nor would I, at least not in any circumstances that I can think of.

OP, I agree with Bunge 100%..I am really curious as to what your situation is..how old are you if you dont mind? And when you say that you couldnt provide financial security for a woman right now, I get that..I mean, if you are living in your car then I would assume there are some issues financially. But when you said you also could not provide for them as far as their physical security, what do you mean by that? Im just not sure I understand.

I think (like Bunge and the others said) that maybe having a serious relationship right now shouldnt be at the top of your list. If you are just looking to satisfy your sexual needs then that shouldnt be an issue. But I guess if that were the case then you wouldnt be worried about not being able to provide security for them, physical or financial.

There has to be a whole lot more to this story and maybe if you feel like sharing the circumstances with us then we might be able to give you some advice or our input. I think we are all just a little confused and having a hard time following your line of thought with the little bit of information you provided us.
 
Well I was more talking about the regular posters who have had a pretty good drug habit. I mean if they got the dope but no place I cannot see a girl leaving the dude if she is hooked herself. And a serious habit pushes many to have to resort to living in questionable circumstances. Just my opinion and not a slight to all the wonderful/beautiful BL female posters.
 
Hmn....Tough question. If I were to be friends first with a man who lived in his car and then the friendship developed into more, I might date him. But, only if it were apparent that he was at the time just down on his luck and working to attain his own financial stability.

Are you trying to get into a serious relationship or just find someone to have a good time with? If it's just for a good time then I don't see how difficult it could be to find someone. The serious relationship may be a bit harder.
 
Droppersneck said:
Well I was more talking about the regular posters who have had a pretty good drug habit. I mean if they got the dope but no place I cannot see a girl leaving the dude if she is hooked herself. And a serious habit pushes many to have to resort to living in questionable circumstances. Just my opinion and not a slight to all the wonderful/beautiful BL female posters.
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I understand hon, and I really wasnt trying to be shitty about it or defensive, I was really just curious about it..but I understand what you are saying, LOL (though I do post here all the time, and I am an opiate/opioid/heroin addict ;)....i guess maybe the difference is I have always been able to support my own habit financially..or not depended on anyone else I mean...and really, now that I think about it, since I have had a habit, I havent been with anyone who also does.. not room for 2 of us!
 
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This, without a doubt.lol
Too many cooks spoil the broth and too many addicts spoil the relationship.
On a side note (sorry OP), I was with a girl who liked to share my tramadol script (back when they had an effect), then my doctor and myself decided to swap me to DHC. Anyway, she (the girl I was with) went crazy when I got home and accused.me of changing my meds on purpose! I was like 'this is my bloody script!, I dont have to get meds to support your addiction!'.
Anyway, I digress lol the point is two addicts, one script...bad news.
 
bunge said:
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This, without a doubt.lol
Too many cooks spoil the broth and too many addicts spoil the relationship.
On a side note (sorry OP), I was with a girl who liked to share my tramadol script (back when they had an effect), then my doctor and myself decided to swap me to DHC. Anyway, she (the girl I was with) went crazy when I got home and accused.me of changing my meds on purpose! I was like 'this is my bloody script!, I dont have to get meds to support your addiction!'.
Anyway, I digress lol the point is two addicts, one script...bad news.
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LOL. Aint that the truth.. :)
 
Droppersneck said:
Id say the majority of BL female posters have dated a guy that lived in their car.
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Why would you make such an asinine remark? That's a real dig at the ladies of Bluelight. Are you insinuating that we don't have standards? Go back to the Lounge.

In answer to the question: no, I would not date a guy who lives in his car. I wouldn't be able to hang out with him anywhere but my place, I'd have to pay for everything all of the time, and I'd be constantly worried about his safety.

OP, if you're living out of your car, why not sell it and put down a deposit on an apartment in a walkable area or do a houseshare with friends or family? Putting a roof over your head is more important than dating. Once you're set up somewhere that isn't your car, date away. There are agencies that can and will help you find a place to live where you will be safe, warm and able to have a nice lady friend over.
 
Beachcat said:
Your question has way too many variables to really be able to answer...

Like, why are you living in your car? Because you can't get your life together or because you are an adventurous rogue who goes from place to place to gain awesome experiences?

It all really just depends on the girl. Can you find a girl to hook up with to fulfill your immediate need for sexual gratification? Yeah, I'm sure you could.

Will you find a girl to have a meaningful relationship with? Maybe, depends on the girl. Which do you want?

And that goes back to why you are living in your car? If the answer is that your life is just not together right now, then you would be WAY better of ignoring your sex drive and channeling that energy into getting yourself back together.
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Yep, exactly. A lot of it depends on the reasoning.

Droppersneck said:
Id say the majority of BL female posters have dated a guy that lived in their car.
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I haven't. This seems very presumptuous and is based on ZERO fact at all.

Mariposa said:
In answer to the question: no, I would not date a guy who lives in his car. I wouldn't be able to hang out with him anywhere but my place, I'd have to pay for everything all of the time, and I'd be constantly worried about his safety.
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Yeah, there are lots of reasons like that. I mean, I don't have ridiculously impossibly high standards but still some ... lol. Like I'd hate to have to pay for everything. I'd hate to hang out at my place all the time.
 
I almost never get to date guys who have a car, let alone live in one. Most people in my generation who live in cities can't afford them anymore.
 
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