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I feel like I'm setting myself up... but what is wrong with having mostly guy friends?
I personally feel like a fairly even ratio, 50/50, is pretty good, but everyone is different. When I was in university, I was in computer science. I'm female but like 90% of my classmates were male so I had more male friends than females at that point.
So I am just really curious why that is a red flag and what is so bad about it?
How many of those guys do you think would have had sex with you if you would have offered?
 
Model <3 What an awesome date. He's a lucky man!

Animal Mother - I had the same question as llama. In past relationships, guys have had difficulty with the fact that I have close male friends. Why? I don't hook up with them.

I'm happily in a new relationship. More on him another time beyond that he's funny, sexy, highly educated, intelligent, has his shit majorly together and that we complement each other well. Happy :)
 
Then the same question I asked her, I ask of you.

Then, I'll elaborate.

Also, this is not a trap. My belief on this is one of my firmest so I don't care to debate about it , I just put it in this thread because I wanted it off my chest. I really like the girl I'm dating ( going out for sushi tonight ) and I feel things stirring in me that I haven't felt in a very long time :)
Just wish she hadn't told me that.
 
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^ lol.
I hate getting a girls panties off and sticking it in a really loose vagina. how do chicks get like that? it's like they're ex-bf's were a horse.. my penis is big enough it should never feel loose. So disappointing. . I lost my virginity to a loose vagina and I thought I would cum quick cuz I was a virgin right and I didn't even have a condom at the time.. well 30 mins into pounding it the chick still came all over me but I didn't cum (I was young and I lied I did-i think she wanted to get pregnant-psycho bitch but that's another story) But now when a vagina is really really loose I find it difficult to maintain erections basically feels like my dick is inserted into nothing
 
^^sounds like the chick I lost my virginity too. Fucked her for like 2 hours and didnt bust. Felt like my penis was floating in nothingness.
 
^hahaha just floating in nothing-ness exactly like a vaginal that is just an oversized moist body temperature gaping hole. no feeling to it.. it's weird too because I've been with some slutty ass chicks that would sleep around for dope that still had a good amount of elasticity down there but some don't that shit is crazy like putting on some pants or shoes that are way too big. and my penis isn't small...
 
How many of those guys do you think would have had sex with you if you would have offered?

I'm not sure. I'm sure some of them would have, some of them wouldn't have. Why would it matter? I choose not to....

I want my virginity back.

Ugh. I wouldn't. I'd much prefer to be relatively experienced than not at all. My first time = not very great. I thought it was like that for most females anyway.
 
You can choose not too all day long, but the desire remains in them. Meaning their motive is not friendship. But, hey, I don't care. Believe whatever makes you happy.
 
You can choose not too all day long, but the desire remains in them. Meaning their motive is not friendship. But, hey, I don't care. Believe whatever makes you happy.

Actually they could just be a friend but I mean I have chicks who are friends and Im not even trying to pursue them at all but they are pretty hot so if they offered sex and I was single hell yea Id say yes. Its a bit of a paranoid way to think man
 
So im moving into my girl friend's house, on my way there now, actually. I'm wondering where this path will take me...my guess is either:
- one or both of us ends up hurt and left broken hearted
OR
- we have both found the love of our life and live happily ever after.

One things for sure, Swedish women sure know how 2 pls a guy
 
I haven't seen Drive, but I do enjoy The Notebook because it's a movie my mother and I watch together. I can't really sit through the entire thing when watching titanic though, it's so cringey because of the cliches.
 
I just broke my heart with a girl. I thought, that now there's a friend who cares, but I was so wrong.

If someone doesn't accept you as you are, what can you do? Move on with life.

I just hate falling in love, because it fucking hurts and breaks your heart.

I thought we had so much in common... Well, you just have to understand to let go.
 
I am just curious

Has any girl actually had the experience of getting an oil massage and then fucked by the masseur?
 
i really hope i find someone someday..... maybe once i go to grad school ( assuming i get in somewhere) .... its really intimidating the concept of trying to find someone now that i have a child
 
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