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so today, i was left out of the blunts rotation not once, not twice but three times! the first time i was like 'ok,well maybe he doesn't like to share'.. so instead of me being passed the blunt,the blunt went back the way it came.like i fucked the circle up.
the second time I even asked the guy if I could get in on it, he was like 'I don't have any'. ok so w,e. so i sat there with everyone else while they smoked.
the third time i was asked to leave the fucking room,which is total bullshit. last paycheck I gave the guy $20 for smoking with me,which I was being nice enough for giving that much for being a head on the blunts rotation maybe 5 or 6 blunts.

how should i react to being intentionally left out of a blunts rotation..? i mean yeah I'm kind of upset because this guy is a co-worker,smokes with everyone else but me. maybe it's because I'm the new guy?

anyone have stories of being 'left out of the rotation'? how did you handle the situation?
 
If that happened to me I would just not deal with those people. If they are ignoring you and ask you to leave the room then they don't deserve your time and energy and you don't need to be trippin' over it. You can find friendlier people to hang around.
 
kayladelmo said:
If that happened to me I would just not deal with those people. If they are ignoring you and ask you to leave the room then they don't deserve your time and energy and you don't need to be trippin' over it. You can find friendlier people to hang around.
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yeah,i needed to hear this. for now on, I'm not going to associate with this guy(unless @ work).
It's nothing like I don't contribute to any of the smoking going on. I offer to buy cigarello's,munchies, and help watch ur shit(even tho the one guy i'm having issues with won't smoke with me,he will tho get me to babyshit his flatscreen,ps3 n shit).

now, i dont give a fuck. i'm way thefuck in Louisiana to WORK and make money, not to make friends (unless ur a chick).
 
This guys are assholes, although occasionally this has happened to me on with my closest two friends on road trips. Idk if it was because I was the driver or what but its a major piss off.
I mean come on, I'm driving you 800km so we can go rave together and have fun without asking for gas money and you left me out of the rotation twice in a row? Or when you let me in it was a shitty gross pooched bowl?
Fuck yooouuuuu guys
 
How rude :-o
There's no need to be so stingey..
Why would you want to hang around a bunch of faggots who don't share their weed in a blunt circle?
 
Aside from what everyone else has said, about why the fuck would you even hang out with people like that, why the hell dont you go get your own weed? That way you can smoke as much as you want whenever you want and share with whomever you want.

Anyone sensible would pass through the whole circle unless they really disliked you, so maybe that's the issue they already don't want you there and you don't have any so you're seen as mooching off of people. Off of people who wish you weren't there because they hate you.... so yea find people who actually want your company and who share and also get your own mate
 
I don't know the full story so I am not going to say this guy isn't a bit of an asshole for acting the way he did, but I feel like a lot of people in this thread are bashing some random person without knowing the exact circumstances.

I smoke weed every day, I have a decent tolerance to weed. I like to share my weed and smoke people out as much as I can, which is pretty damn often, however, if it comes down to it I am going to cover myself foremost and my friends I have been smoking with for years second (I would have to only have like a few bongs left to ever not let a good friend in on it) and if someone has to miss out then it is just too bad. I don't like excluding people but ultimately I am going to get the buzz I want from MY weed before I let random people hit it and nobody get a proper buzz.

I never just expect because someone sparks up I am getting some and I don't see why it is some personal issue. Personally I know a few stingy bastards who never have their own smoke but are always first to try jump on someone elses, this type of behaviour really pisses me off and typically I will end up calling these people out sooner or later. I am not a man of great means and weed isn't exactly super cheap. And by the way offering to buy cigarillos and munchies doesn't make up for weed, anyone can replace that shit but there are times and situations that reupping your weed ain't in the nearest future. And to "help watch your shit" is a fucking weird favour to me and honestly I don't see how being honest and not snatching someones shit or not saying shit when someone else does somehow entitles you to some of their possessions.

Maybe these people are assholes and left the OP out just be be pricks or maybe they only had enough weed for a certain amount of heads. I don't want to make judgement on the OP just as I don't the people he is talking about but it honestly strikes me as a bit weird and I can't help but feel to jump on the internet and make a thread about it is making a bigger deal of it than the guy he is bitching about did...
 
i am absolutely entitled to other people's drugs. if i'm with other people and they don't share their drugs with me (to which i am, did i mention, entitled) i'd probably throw hissy fit and start a thread about it on a drugs discussion board...

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When I used to smoke as a youngster, a couple kids would come by. It got out of hand when they bring their friends and suddenly three people turns to 5. If they were not bringing some weed, next time I would just say "too many heads in my room, not cool with the parents" So they kinda got the hint without me being rude. I would be hesitant to hang with these guys and buy your own weed.
 
alasdairm said:
i am absolutely entitled to other people's drugs. if i'm with other people and they don't share their drugs with me (to which i am, did i mention, entitled) i'd probably throw hissy fit and start a thread about it on a drugs discussion board...

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Well see, when you put it that way it makes it sound childish and immature.

I look at this kind of thing in a different light, and I realize before going further that it might differ from the sessions D's has been getting left out of.

When I'm around other people smoking in a social situation, I either tend to at least know them and have smoked with them on occasion and they with me, or I feel like we're both comfortable enough around each other to spark one.

In those cases, yes, I would enter the scenario fully expecting to be passed the J. If it's just a regular day and my coworked refused to let me hit the J I would most certainly ask why. Not aggressively or anything, but I would like to know why a coworker I'm either beginning to or already do look at as a friend would exclude me from something we both would enjoy.

Regardless of whatever the answer is that he might give, at least OP'll know what the situation is and not have to make assumptions about what these other people might be feeling about him.
 
Damn i wouldn't do that to someone if i had any weed i'd share with whomever i was hanging out with
 
drug_mentor said:
Personally I know a few stingy bastards who never have their own smoke but are always first to try jump on someone elses, this type of behaviour really pisses me off and typically I will end up calling these people out sooner or later. I am not a man of great means and weed isn't exactly super cheap.
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I had one mate who was such a bludger he wouldn't even get on the dole. This same prick would expect us to pack him on because we could afford weed as we worked for a living. I developed the trick of packing him "airys" which would look like a decent cone but he could never understand why the rest of us would rip huge cones & he would get such shitty hits.

Sounds like D's needs to start buying his own bud & then he won't have to bludge of anyone else :\. I used to fucking hate people who would come over & want to throw in money. I don't smoke money I smoke bud & every time you throw in is sooner I have to go get on again. The best guests are those who come & say since its after 5 lets have cocktails & break out their bud to throw into mine.
 
CymbalKid said:
Damn i wouldn't do that to someone if i had any weed i'd share with whomever i was hanging out with
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Shoot, I'm quick to not include a hang-around.

Example: I call a friend, tell him I'ma come through and burn one with him. He says bet, I show up 10min later and he's got someone there I seen around but we've never spoken. Sure as shit I'll spark up with my boy and pass back and forth in front of the third man out a la How High when they were bogartin' on their RA. They're free to ask and I'm willing to tell them that I don't know them and leave it at that.

Doesn't happen every time, though, just with particular people. More often than not a friend of my friend is at least a buddy to me so I'll put somethin' in the air with pretty much anyone I happen to associate with. It's those new heads that end up assed out, not the older, slightly unfamiliar ones.
 
It's not the fact he didn't give you tokes on the blunt. It's the fact he let everyone else in on it, and asked you to leave.

I'd just go on with my life and ignore any unnecessary contact with whoever 'asked you to leave.'
 
Jibult said:
Shoot, I'm quick to not include a hang-around.

Example: I call a friend, tell him I'ma come through and burn one with him. He says bet, I show up 10min later and he's got someone there I seen around but we've never spoken. Sure as shit I'll spark up with my boy and pass back and forth in front of the third man out a la How High when they were bogartin' on their RA. They're free to ask and I'm willing to tell them that I don't know them and leave it at that.

Doesn't happen every time, though, just with particular people. More often than not a friend of my friend is at least a buddy to me so I'll put somethin' in the air with pretty much anyone I happen to associate with. It's those new heads that end up assed out, not the older, slightly unfamiliar ones.
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Yeah I know what you mean. I wouldn't smoke someone up that i didn't know either
 
Around here smoking is such a social event that if there's a ring and you leave someone out of the rotation, even if they are a stranger, it is considered rude. If you want to smoke all by yourself, then do it all by yourself without other people around you. Cannabis etiquette differs from place to place, but I like to say that 'it's just weed ffs'. I also try not to judge people who decide not to partake in these common social rituals. Don't take anything for granted even if it's a social standard of sorts, nobody is entitled to anything or something.
 
I would take him down by funding more marijuana purchasses than him and smoking out more people to gain more support. You don't want to be at that dudes mercy
 
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