purplefirefly
Bluelight Crew
Yes, that's the cycle of addiction, it's not exclusive to drug addiction though, most addictions can be put into that scenario. The obsession is the mental illness, the method is the choice.
Well, I try not to think of it in terms of "blame", because really, it's a harsh term, and I don't think beating myself up would do much good.
I think what's important here is realizing and acknowledging that I have poor decision making skills.
And this poor decision making ability seems to be coupled with a desire to follow my own course and not necessarily listen to what society has to say. A dangerous combination, IMO. Not really sure how to fix that, but I suppose at least knowing that's a problem is a step in the right direction.
I love traveling to the south, I get called "m'am" everywhere I go. .
Shit, I call everyone mam and sir here, regardless of their occupation, race, or social standing. Everyone says mam and sir to people that other people probably just ignore, including janitors, fast food workers, etc. I am pretty sure that I've told a homeless man, "No sir, I don't have any money."
Long term opiate use does not cure or even aid depression. It's helpfulness diminishes over time and the only thing you're left with is a costly habit and just as much depression and anxiety as you started with.
im the same way. its a respect thing, and i respect everyone. i didnt think it was a southern thing tbqh. so people up north dont hit you with no ma'am or yes ma'am pff?
i agree to an extent. its does seem opiate use only exacerbates depression and anxiety, but at the same time with bingey's argument, does it increase depression because of the chemical make up of the brain/the drug or does it increase depression because of the social aspects that are inevitably involved with opiates?
i believe that a great deal of the negative side effects of opiates are sociologically driven. like if they werent so restricted and we took the things out you have to do to obtain them, which, in turn, would eiliminate negative things like shame from the situation, would that improve the depressive aspects of the situation? i believe it would. i think a large majority of the negative feelings that are attached to opiate use would diminish if the government took a different stance on them and didnt influence the majority to look down on opiate addicts.
Gosh do you guys ever have anything to say on an intellectual level?
I think it has to do with the existing neurochemistry of the drug user. People become addicts because they are trying to escape something. There is something in their brain that isn't working correctly (either situational or an imbalance), or in your case, the aspect of intolerable pain. Opiates are looked to for relief. The problem is that the symptom is being treated but not the disease (this would apply to depression and anxiety for example). If you don't learn how to think differently or fix the imbalance then nothing will change. Your tolerance just goes up and up and it's harder to escape.
Honestly, I never thought I would say this but....the majority of negative light that shines on drug users is self inflicted. The majority of users, particularly addicts, are not at the top of the intellectual food chain. I've known a lot of users and many of them are low life thieves and liars. Sometimes stereotypes exist for a reason. They have trouble holding jobs and maintaining relationships, their lives revolve pretty exclusively around doing drugs. Everything else is secondary. Maybe legalization would help sway that, provided drugs were actually made affordable, even with taxation. That verdict is still out though.