Has KK (OP) been back to update the situation?
KK... you are 19. I'm going to suppose that you are appealing to look at. I'm also going to suppose that she feels a sexual charge off of you, because many 19 year old men seem to radiate energy they are not even aware of. She sees you, and she wants you. For the sake of argument I say that when you leave, she is partly sad you left, and partly wondering when she lost her fucking mind.
You know that your situation is common, right? Some women in their 30s or 40s see their male counterparts as unattractive. Maybe putting on weight, maybe receding hairline, maybe married with kids, whatever it is, you are not any of that.
You are the opposite of that so it's really no wonder that she wants to fuck you. She is probably not the only woman who ever looked at you and thought....hhmmm....I wonder what he looks like naked.
There is a difference between wanting to have sex, and wanting dinner and a movie.
I am not surprised at all that she is coming on to you. I am surprised that she is treating you like a potential boyfriend. Texting "are you mad at me" raised a red flag for you, I can tell. You're smart to have picked up on that, and the other odd behaviors your friend's mom is displaying.
Trust your instincts, kiddo. Every cougar is different. This one seems tilted and you know it. If she were on the level, I think she would have discreetly gotten you alone and had her way with you by now and then gone on to act as if nothing happened because she understands that people gossip and cause drama behind stuff like this.
jmho. From what you have said, a sexual relationship with your friend's mom may end up all messy and dramatic. Do you know if she's come on to any other friends of her son? It would be really helpful information for you. There is the possibility that she is into younger men. (Not to judge her for it. I'm just saying.) Are you the only one, the first one, or just the newest one?
Listen to your instincts. If it feels weird, stay away from her and drop it. Hopefully she'll come across another young one soon and not hound you. If you want her, she's yours for the taking, but there's nothing in your post to suggest you are hot for her. You aren't texting her weird stuff. You aren't planning your future activities around her. A fuck is fine but after the fuck you are going to have a cougar on your hands, or worse, a crazy cougar after your tail at all times.
Keep us posted.
KK... you are 19. I'm going to suppose that you are appealing to look at. I'm also going to suppose that she feels a sexual charge off of you, because many 19 year old men seem to radiate energy they are not even aware of. She sees you, and she wants you. For the sake of argument I say that when you leave, she is partly sad you left, and partly wondering when she lost her fucking mind.
You know that your situation is common, right? Some women in their 30s or 40s see their male counterparts as unattractive. Maybe putting on weight, maybe receding hairline, maybe married with kids, whatever it is, you are not any of that.
You are the opposite of that so it's really no wonder that she wants to fuck you. She is probably not the only woman who ever looked at you and thought....hhmmm....I wonder what he looks like naked.
There is a difference between wanting to have sex, and wanting dinner and a movie.
I am not surprised at all that she is coming on to you. I am surprised that she is treating you like a potential boyfriend. Texting "are you mad at me" raised a red flag for you, I can tell. You're smart to have picked up on that, and the other odd behaviors your friend's mom is displaying.
Trust your instincts, kiddo. Every cougar is different. This one seems tilted and you know it. If she were on the level, I think she would have discreetly gotten you alone and had her way with you by now and then gone on to act as if nothing happened because she understands that people gossip and cause drama behind stuff like this.
jmho. From what you have said, a sexual relationship with your friend's mom may end up all messy and dramatic. Do you know if she's come on to any other friends of her son? It would be really helpful information for you. There is the possibility that she is into younger men. (Not to judge her for it. I'm just saying.) Are you the only one, the first one, or just the newest one?
Listen to your instincts. If it feels weird, stay away from her and drop it. Hopefully she'll come across another young one soon and not hound you. If you want her, she's yours for the taking, but there's nothing in your post to suggest you are hot for her. You aren't texting her weird stuff. You aren't planning your future activities around her. A fuck is fine but after the fuck you are going to have a cougar on your hands, or worse, a crazy cougar after your tail at all times.
Keep us posted.
