Need opinions.
I've got an eviction hearing on Thursday, the story why is long, basically it's not looking good that i'll get to keep my flat.
I'm putting my mate up for a couple weeks as she's been made homeless, and is looking for a new flat. (Though i've not seen her looking at ads and she's already told me she's spent all her weekly wages , so she's not saving for a deposit!) A week after she moved in, her recent Ex who's also a good mate of mine was thrown out of his rehab placement for testing positive. On Thursday she and him asked if he could stay at mine for one night only, I said OK, he promised to be gone on Friday. Friday comes, he's still hanging around with me and my mate. I tell him clearly, please sort somewhere else out to stay tonight. He tells me he has. Night time comes, I ask him again has he sorted somewhere, he tells me hes gonna have dinner with his ex, and then go. Midnight comes, I ask whats going on, he says he will go try his mate who said he could stay, but he cant reach him. I end up saying he can stay the night. I basically KNEW he'd try leave it as late as possible then ask me.
Today, he's slept all day, not offered to help me with tidying up, mess he helped make. Asked if he could stay in flat when I went to town. THEN asked me to sort him out when I came back with one of each, I said no. I decided that was a bit cheeky of him, he should have come out with me to help me sort it out if he wanted something. Why should I run around to sort myself out, and he waits in my flat and then have a dig handed to him on a plate. I'm always sharing stuff with him, every day , it comes back around, but only once in a while.
So, basically I feel like a bit of a bitch for telling him to move on tonight, BUT it's because I've let people stay in the past, causing noise, police visits that I'm in court on Thursday, possibly being evicted. They are noisy, I had to tell them to stop arguing, and mentioning drug names loudly. Something else that I've been pulled up on and reason for court case.
I can't actually remember the last time someone did something for me.
I'm already struggling having my mate stay, I NEED my own space hence why I chose to live alone.
Am I being a bitch not letting him stay? I can tell that he and his ex cant really see why im staying no, and why i cant just let him stay the weekend.
I'm tired of being walked all over by people, I really cannot lose this flat, if I end up in a hostel, I have NO chance of getting clean.