Beat Narrative
Bluelighter
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This is probably the stupidest post that may have been made in the history of bluelight, but i am immune to humiliation at the moment
I have been a poly drug user for 16 years now, the only drugs that have become a 'problem" for me are alcohol, opiates and weed
Everytime i quit one i seem to then replace it with the other, i had to stop drinking for health reasons then took up opitaes, nothing major, mainly codeine and poppoyssed tea but it became habitual and physically addictive and most of all the ultimate anxiety killer
I have had to quit my job to get off opiates because i couldn't seperate that environment with that behaviour, plus it was a soul destroying job, i am now studying social work (seems kinda perverse) and have gotten over my opiate habit but it's slowly creeping back with a couple of relapses after 3 months total abstinence
My drinking, marajuana and benzo use now has replaced my daily opiate use and my drinking has always been a problem but i am seeing real signs of addiction kicking in, the feel of needing a drink as opposeed to feeling like a drink seems to my drinking habit at the moment.
I have tried total abstinence and it never lasts more than a day or so, i feel incapable of functionng without at least one of the aforementioned drugs but predominantly alcohol or opiates
Is sobriety just a case of white knuckling it for a while and things start to feel easier, or am i going to be struggling with temptation for eternity, i know that sounds an absurd question and i guess i know the answer but the path to a sober life does not seem like something i am capabale of, what stratagies have people used to get out of this feeling of being trapped in a cycle of habitual intoxication
I wish i was a violent or messy drunk, but i am a placid drunk, i wish i had done some imoral things to obtain substances, something to shame me into sobriety but i fall into teh ctaergory of 'functioning" addict in the sense that its not apparent to those around me (other than my gf who lives with me)
I know its a case of total abstinence, one day at a time but i feel a part of me has been taken away and i will never be able to be truely content unless intoxicated
I know i sound pathetic, and thats how i feel but i am jsut wondering how others have broken the cycle, what were your first steps?
I have been a poly drug user for 16 years now, the only drugs that have become a 'problem" for me are alcohol, opiates and weed
Everytime i quit one i seem to then replace it with the other, i had to stop drinking for health reasons then took up opitaes, nothing major, mainly codeine and poppoyssed tea but it became habitual and physically addictive and most of all the ultimate anxiety killer
I have had to quit my job to get off opiates because i couldn't seperate that environment with that behaviour, plus it was a soul destroying job, i am now studying social work (seems kinda perverse) and have gotten over my opiate habit but it's slowly creeping back with a couple of relapses after 3 months total abstinence
My drinking, marajuana and benzo use now has replaced my daily opiate use and my drinking has always been a problem but i am seeing real signs of addiction kicking in, the feel of needing a drink as opposeed to feeling like a drink seems to my drinking habit at the moment.
I have tried total abstinence and it never lasts more than a day or so, i feel incapable of functionng without at least one of the aforementioned drugs but predominantly alcohol or opiates
Is sobriety just a case of white knuckling it for a while and things start to feel easier, or am i going to be struggling with temptation for eternity, i know that sounds an absurd question and i guess i know the answer but the path to a sober life does not seem like something i am capabale of, what stratagies have people used to get out of this feeling of being trapped in a cycle of habitual intoxication
I wish i was a violent or messy drunk, but i am a placid drunk, i wish i had done some imoral things to obtain substances, something to shame me into sobriety but i fall into teh ctaergory of 'functioning" addict in the sense that its not apparent to those around me (other than my gf who lives with me)
I know its a case of total abstinence, one day at a time but i feel a part of me has been taken away and i will never be able to be truely content unless intoxicated
I know i sound pathetic, and thats how i feel but i am jsut wondering how others have broken the cycle, what were your first steps?