So you can stop worrying about what the postie thinks of you, lol!
I get on awesomely with everyone of my neighbours. just because it's necessary to do so. and I really really dislike some of them, but making enemies or wallowing in conflict in a relatively restricted community space just ends up making you a casualty of natural selection. But I take GREAT fucking pleasure in knowing that not more than one or two of them has a fucking clue who I am, or what I'm about.
I often leave junk mail, local leaflets and freebie papers on my doormat, untouched ... for days. on purpose. and I fucking LOVE that someone's perception of me will be [ridiculously] characterised by such. if I don't like or value someone, and have no intention of rectifying that because I know theyre pretty much a lost cause, or because they're obnoxious, then the less they know about me the better. and I fucking love that a house can look very dodgy from the outside, but be completely the opposite when you get invited in and can look around.
it also works as a great burglar deterrent

[edit] this is no doubt a symptom of projection due to having a Hyacinth Bouquet type mother.
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