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Describe your love life:)

Still totally in love with the same man after 17 years. Didn't plan on being with him for this long, I really thought I would get bored somewhere along the way, but he still gives me butterflies in my stomach. Has stood by me through my illness,and has never wavered and I got what most people search for all their lives, sickening but true. If we went our seperate ways tomarrow, I could honestly say there would never be another.
^ what do you think has made you both stay in love and strong for so long?
 
im very in love with my boyfriend and would never engage in such action with a male/female i met over bluelight or any other site. my man gives me everything i need and up most desire, well as best as he can. theres never been a moment where he's left me hanging. he's my lover, my bitch, my world.

get a shovel.
 
^ what do you think has made you both stay in love and strong for so long?

Wow...a million things, but the main thing is we were friends first, and saw all the good, bad, and the ugly before we were ever attracted to one another. And honestly we came from different worlds. Some folks are lucky enough to really click, don't get me wrong, we've had some major bad times, but have always managed to get thru them. The last 4 years have been very hard since I became sick, I can't work anymore and that puts a hellofa strain on a marrige, but we keep fighting, because we both know that time is not on our side, and there is precious little of it left for us. He is my best friend, when I can't stand one more minute of fighting this disease, he tells me not to give up. When I can't go through one more test and the fear of being on that operating table is more than I can stand, he gives me the courage I need by telling me, "I'll be here when you come out." So for him, I am strong. And when I have to take 16 pills a day and the side effects cause the most horrible muscle pain you can imagine, he helps me walk down to the beach for one more sunset. I can never repay the gift he has given me, total unselfishness. I am very very lucky, I can think of no other man who would do it that I know of.
 
I was jk Oats, my female and I are totally in love I couldn't possibly smang it on a total stranger I met on bluelight :P
 
Wow...a million things, but the main thing is we were friends first, and saw all the good, bad, and the ugly before we were ever attracted to one another. And honestly we came from different worlds. Some folks are lucky enough to really click, don't get me wrong, we've had some major bad times, but have always managed to get thru them. The last 4 years have been very hard since I became sick, I can't work anymore and that puts a hellofa strain on a marrige, but we keep fighting, because we both know that time is not on our side, and there is precious little of it left for us. He is my best friend, when I can't stand one more minute of fighting this disease, he tells me not to give up. When I can't go through one more test and the fear of being on that operating table is more than I can stand, he gives me the courage I need by telling me, "I'll be here when you come out." So for him, I am strong. And when I have to take 16 pills a day and the side effects cause the most horrible muscle pain you can imagine, he helps me walk down to the beach for one more sunset. I can never repay the gift he has given me, total unselfishness. I am very very lucky, I can think of no other man who would do it that I know of.
wow im very happy for you both. so very sorry to hear about your illness, goodluck on it..sounds horrible. thankfully you have a good man. that sounds like stuff my man would do for me. i have terrible pains in my right knee and he always does the best he can in giving my comfort even when i literally cant stand cuz of the pain.
god bless our men!
i really hope things get better for you!<3
 
I'm going to meet him at a favorite park on Sunday for lunch and coffee - I have some books I'd like to return to him, and he's got my crockpot. I am worried about what to wear and what my hair will look like. I do not do this except for important meetings/interviews, etc... and not even really then! I'm just me.

To all of you in happy relationships: I respect you deeply. You found the right person for you and you did not settle. May your fortune continue forever and beyond. Stability is the quality I value in people most. Every relationship has its ups and downs. To stick together and to work with your partner on issues that may arise, is to be truly in love. <3

Please wish me luck, SLR. I'm so confused - what on earth to do? Leave him at the park to shed the tears I know he still has? Rush into his arms, which may or may not be open, due to my tendency to run like hell from our relationship? Go look sad at a bar over a snobby microbrew? Was it wrong the whole time? There were so many moments of magic where I thought it would be forever. And his children? They must love me still. This is not what I wanted to have happen. Yikes.
 
^:(
my love's almost 5000 miles away and has been for two months, and i aint going there for another two months.

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I lost my virginity about 2 months before my 17th bday...We had sex almost daily, and frequently multiple times daily. About a week before my bday we broke up, and since then I've had one blow job/hand job 18 months after the last time I had, had sex, and sex once a couple weeks after the half 'n' half. That has been it. I turn 20 in Nov. Last time I had sex was in April of last year. Damn...Just realized it's been another year and a half lol...Don't see any prospects any time soon.

So my sex life is...pretty much non-existent.
 
Very confusing. I've been single for a while and all of a sudden it seems like a handfull of nice girls from work have all become interested in me at the same time.

Really fucking my head up, I'm so toxic and I really don't want to fuck any of them around but I'm not sure what to do.

I was so close to kissing one of them last night but ended up not because I was so confused. She kept telling me how gorgeous I am and how much she likes me but I just couldn't bring things to a close. Ended up walking her to the night bus and NOT kissing her. Wtf is wrong with me. Ha ha.
 
My boy and i have been kickin it together for 5months now, and god....i am so incredibly happy.
 
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