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New girlfriend doesnt give head very well

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I have a new girlfriend and I really like her. We had amazing sex yesterday but she doesnt know how to give head well. My ex girlfriend gave amazing head, when i would get head from her I would only last a minute or two and shed have me squirming around eyes rolling back in my head moaning the whole time...
New girlfriend has given me head a few times now but I dont think she can even make me cum from head, i asked her to try to deepthroat me last time and she tried but she couldnt get more than half of me in her mouth...,
I dont want to hurt her feelings or make her feel bad. Her pussy is super tight and she loves my dick but i want her to be ablr to give me good head...
What should I do to get her to give head better? I dont want to hurt her feelings
 
Is head a big deal to you just in case you don't feel like fucking this relationship up?

I have told chicks they give lousy head and done the porn thing to. Hell at the end of a failing marriage y wife played porn in the bedroom.

But you gotta accept people for who they are, give her some time, she might be better at it but not like it.

I know plenty of women who don't like various sex acts because of past trauma so keep that in mind too.
 
Its so frustrating when you just want a good bj an they are only doin it cause you asked.there is definitely a difference in a girl that likes sucking dick to one that does it just to make the guy ahappy
 
Dont be afraid to tell her what you like when shes down there. Its in the way you say it, you can make asking for deeper, faster or slower whatever and make it sound sexy and alluring, not instructional or putting her down.

Dont assume she doesn't like giving head for a start. She might be just doing what she thinks you will be in to based on past experience or actually unsure of what you want.

Its like guys who think they know what all women want in oral sex based on what their ex was in to.

Everyone is different. Its up to you to tell her what gets you off but for the love of sweet Jesus never tell her how great your ex was at it or compare her to your ex.

I suggest you just be patient and gently guide her with your hands and speak softly to her as shes doing it.
 
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she gotta go bruh bruh. lol jk. maybe just fuck her mouth :/
 
cLaTTeReD said:
I got my ex to show my current gf how to give good head. Seriously :)
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You are a hero of anti-feminism.
On topic: Some girls do better blowjobs than others. I wouldn't realy like it if all did it the same so I don't agree with that"teach her" advice.
 
Things you could try. Make her lube her mouth, disgusting taste but my ex loved it. Making her inhale poppers while she's giving head.
 
I'm actually curious as to what guys think makes a girl bad at giving head? What does she have to do or not do to suck (pun definitely intended) at it?
 
^ Eye contact is good. When I was in venezuela, I met this girl who gave the best head I've ever had. The funny thing is, it wasnt even this big production, it was almost like I was jerking off in how chill it was. Thats why I came so fast. She just fucking awesome at not doing things that ruin the mood. It was calm and rhythmic not all over the place. She also gave a great handjob. I dont evne fucking know yo. She didnt even deepthroat. Didnt need to. Damn just thinking about her what hte fuck. Why cant she be here now lol.


I think thats really the biggest deal. As long as it doesn't bother me then I am good and its a joy. Its when u get these girls who just do all this different shit to your dick but none of it really bring u to orgasm. Its just like when your masturbating. U probably dont do all this fancy shit. U probably just rub your clit up and down. Same dif. Girls who do fancy shit might b ok if they pros, but its usually better if they just rhythmic about it. Just like if a guy is just fucking around down there. You know. First hes on your clit then its here then its there and it just flips around like that for a while til you yank him up.


To the O.P Did you make her cum? Im guessing no. It takes time to learn the ins and outs of eachother. It takes years to get really really good. But once u do, u know exactly what makes that person feel good. GOod times.
 
Because your girlfriend is a lying virgin. Move on to the next one. Specifically, your ex-girlfriend she actually loves you and you will grow old together and have amazing babies.
 
Don't like head.....it makes you not last very long for sex....I mean I understand if you need it to get an erection but if you can do without it you should because you could save all the sensation for sex instead. If you want her to be good watch porn with her and ask her what she thinks...specifically the POV oral sex genre
 
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