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New girlfriend doesnt give head very well

Exactly! I went from being like "what do I even do" to my ex saying I gave the best head he'd ever had.
I think how you feel about them does play a factor. You just wanna give them the best pleasure
 
I think being too good at it isn't doing me any favors. Guys tell me I'm the best at it, but maybe in their head, they are judging me that if I'm too good at it, it means I'm a "whore" or something. Some guys are so stupid, they make me sick. They don't like it if you're bad at it, but if you're too good, I bet they think bad things about you. Can't win.
 
CoastTwoCoast said:
I think being too good at it isn't doing me any favors. Guys tell me I'm the best at it, but maybe in their head, they are judging me that if I'm too good at it, it means I'm a "whore" or something. Some guys are so stupid, they make me sick. They don't like it if you're bad at it, but if you're too good, I bet they think bad things about you. Can't win.
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You really are Damned either way, being female.. You know, it's funny, I was laughed at when I was still a virgin and when I wasn't anymore, I was a slut. Slut-shaming is so stupid tbh. Why is it that you're a prude if you don't sleep with that guy but if you do, you're a slut. There's no grey area. If it's two single, consulting adults, why judge them.
 
I think you need to watch some porn with your girlfriend. Especially blowjob videos made by pornstars. Also you can show her some good oral sex methods/tricks in these video clips.
 
rxqueen02 said:
You really are Damned either way, being female.. You know, it's funny, I was laughed at when I was still a virgin and when I wasn't anymore, I was a slut. Slut-shaming is so stupid tbh. Why is it that you're a prude if you don't sleep with that guy but if you do, you're a slut. There's no grey area. If it's two single, consulting adults, why judge them.
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Exactly. It's a double standard. Guys go around being "whores" and "sluts" since they want to throw around names. Can't worry about it though. Just do your thing and the right person will come along.

With this guy I'm seeing, I decided to wait and not jump right into it. He happens to be a good guy.
There were times in the past, I just wanted to get laid. So what? haha
 
CoastTwoCoast said:
Exactly. It's a double standard. Guys go around being "whores" and "sluts" since they want to throw around names. Can't worry about it though. Just do your thing and the right person will come along.

With this guy I'm seeing, I decided to wait and not jump right into it. He happens to be a good guy.
There were times in the past, I just wanted to get laid. So what? haha
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I'm glad you found a good guy!
And yeah, it makes the guy "cool" to have a high body count but if a chick has sex with someone, they're a complete skank. Complete double standard, you're right. But the world is full of them and best thing is to do as you said, do your own thing and fuck anyone who gives you shit about it.
Exactly haha, we all have needs. :p
 
Honestly try telling her what you like. Be very vocal and t elll her being vocal turns you on that's why you're so expressive.
 
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