LifeIsStrange
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Two years ago I was on the similar situation. I mean I have to live a time with my mother and stepfather.
I was so horrible that I started more and more to drink (but this is another story). I asked them: "How can you treat me like that? Am I not your son? Or what or who I am? A part time guest?".
My Mom answered: "Your are not a guest here you are only tolerated." Other sentences from her are: "If you are lying dying in the street - I will walk over you".
This year (have my own flat again since last quarter of 2014) - but we had an big argument again. Then I thought finally to myself - she is mental ill. Never talk to her again. The result is always an argument against me.
So I will leave this part of my family. Will move over 800 km to my father, because I realized that he is the only one in my family who is really interested in me.
Why I am telling you these? I know other institutions like Scientology - I know there methods to brainwash people. So IMHO you must decide. Stick with your so called parents, suffering because of housing, car and stuff or say Good bye one day.
I am planning my move silently. As less as ppl are involved. Because if I have to make bank transfers I must use a bank account from my mother (which she gave me in situation of compassion. Without that I could get no job, flat, etc - but it's not mine she can just close it any time or steal money if there is something on it)...
So I must be careful. Because I think the whole process will take since February or so. So I must stay under the radar until at least my father makes an account for me (in his name). But he will do this in the next couple of days.
Main problem:
You can not argue with such ppl that are so brainwashed IMHO. So it useless in my eyes. Try everything to avoid communication with them and find another way with the things that makes you depended on your parents. At some day they realize what really happened - but then you are already gone (not dead).
If they knock. Then open door, say please come in, sit down please and be my guest. Wanna have a tea or something to eat? And then lets talk - like real evolved humans do. But not in their house. Public or your house. Because the plus side in your flat/house is. You are the owner. Once back in 2007 I said to my mother: "Do not talk to me like that - there is the door.".
Hope that helps a little bit. That is a part of the reasons why I am quitting drugs and make a complete new plan. I hate being dependent to something or someone (except my own child or wife, because it could be a wonderful symbioses). It can break your heart and make you depressed and sick.
So it is good for me, that I have almost lost everything. It is like a forest fires - if you survive you can make everything new. Plus if you got no gold or silver you do not care about. See the rich ones. Locked in their villas with steel mesh and fences?
Is this life - no this is only maya (Sanskrit) - only a illusion. Go out in the woods feel the power of nature. Make things with your hands. I started painting and make things from melted metal. Can tell you so much more...
... you can believe me - I can understand fully your dilemma.
Blessings
LifeIsStrange
I was so horrible that I started more and more to drink (but this is another story). I asked them: "How can you treat me like that? Am I not your son? Or what or who I am? A part time guest?".
My Mom answered: "Your are not a guest here you are only tolerated." Other sentences from her are: "If you are lying dying in the street - I will walk over you".
This year (have my own flat again since last quarter of 2014) - but we had an big argument again. Then I thought finally to myself - she is mental ill. Never talk to her again. The result is always an argument against me.
So I will leave this part of my family. Will move over 800 km to my father, because I realized that he is the only one in my family who is really interested in me.
Why I am telling you these? I know other institutions like Scientology - I know there methods to brainwash people. So IMHO you must decide. Stick with your so called parents, suffering because of housing, car and stuff or say Good bye one day.
I am planning my move silently. As less as ppl are involved. Because if I have to make bank transfers I must use a bank account from my mother (which she gave me in situation of compassion. Without that I could get no job, flat, etc - but it's not mine she can just close it any time or steal money if there is something on it)...
So I must be careful. Because I think the whole process will take since February or so. So I must stay under the radar until at least my father makes an account for me (in his name). But he will do this in the next couple of days.
Main problem:
You can not argue with such ppl that are so brainwashed IMHO. So it useless in my eyes. Try everything to avoid communication with them and find another way with the things that makes you depended on your parents. At some day they realize what really happened - but then you are already gone (not dead).
If they knock. Then open door, say please come in, sit down please and be my guest. Wanna have a tea or something to eat? And then lets talk - like real evolved humans do. But not in their house. Public or your house. Because the plus side in your flat/house is. You are the owner. Once back in 2007 I said to my mother: "Do not talk to me like that - there is the door.".
Hope that helps a little bit. That is a part of the reasons why I am quitting drugs and make a complete new plan. I hate being dependent to something or someone (except my own child or wife, because it could be a wonderful symbioses). It can break your heart and make you depressed and sick.
So it is good for me, that I have almost lost everything. It is like a forest fires - if you survive you can make everything new. Plus if you got no gold or silver you do not care about. See the rich ones. Locked in their villas with steel mesh and fences?
Is this life - no this is only maya (Sanskrit) - only a illusion. Go out in the woods feel the power of nature. Make things with your hands. I started painting and make things from melted metal. Can tell you so much more...
... you can believe me - I can understand fully your dilemma.
Blessings
LifeIsStrange
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