Hi Everybody,
I am new to this forum and wanted to get some of your views on a dilemma I am in right now. My husband and I have a good marriage and have now been married just over 10 years. A couple of years ago he asked me about my ex-boyfriends and my past sex life. I didn't want to tell him about it with much detail, but the more we discussed it, the more turned on he got. He wanted to know all the naughty things I did and some of my best sex memories with past boyfriends. Since then, he has admitted to me that his biggest fantasy would be to watch me with with a man that I am very attracted to and that is better endowed than him. I love my husband, but I get jealous if my husband even notices an attractive woman! I will admit his fantasy is very hot for me as the thought of being wanted by another man (while my husband watches) is incredibly sexy. It's even got to the point where it is probably my biggest fantasy as well.
Would really appreciate how others have dealt with this sort of fantasy? I have no idea why my husband would be so turned on by the idea of sharing me when it is completely one way!
I am new to this forum and wanted to get some of your views on a dilemma I am in right now. My husband and I have a good marriage and have now been married just over 10 years. A couple of years ago he asked me about my ex-boyfriends and my past sex life. I didn't want to tell him about it with much detail, but the more we discussed it, the more turned on he got. He wanted to know all the naughty things I did and some of my best sex memories with past boyfriends. Since then, he has admitted to me that his biggest fantasy would be to watch me with with a man that I am very attracted to and that is better endowed than him. I love my husband, but I get jealous if my husband even notices an attractive woman! I will admit his fantasy is very hot for me as the thought of being wanted by another man (while my husband watches) is incredibly sexy. It's even got to the point where it is probably my biggest fantasy as well.
Would really appreciate how others have dealt with this sort of fantasy? I have no idea why my husband would be so turned on by the idea of sharing me when it is completely one way!