Azure Cloud
Bluelighter
- Joined
- Jul 24, 2013
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- 523
T. Calderone and Herbavore, I appreciate the kind words more than I can express. I guess I'm in my 2nd month of being substance free ( I am not counting the days but basically quit opiates and amphetamines back in July). I still feel pretty funky most days so it is hard to realize that I'm making incredible progress without someone reminding me.
I let myself get super depressed for a few weeks. It was horrible. I was being rejected so much at work (I'm in sales) that I allowed myself to take it personally. I developed an irrational fear of my costumers which snowballed into a full scale panic attack that I suffered non stop for that time period.
My heart felt like it could beat out of my chest. My stomach in constant knots. I could not break the cycle until I realized and acted on the fact that I had to face my fears and start aggressively seeing customers again, or else soon I wouldn't be feeding my family.
The first day I did that, my panic, anxiety and depression began to melt away.
I thought all this was PAWS related. Now I have to question whether all or how much of the fatigue and depression I suffer thru daily is actually PAWS related and how much is in my head. Taking on the day as a challenge and not a dreaded task does help with my perspective and how I feel in my head but it is easy to forget to fight the overwhelming feeling and let the weight of it all crush my soul. But the amazing thing is that as long as I put forth true effort to fight for the day, even if I don't win (eg., don't make a single sale that day) or feel nearly as accomplished as I wish, I don't feel too bad. Believe me, not feeling too bad is a great improvement compared to where I've been.
I let myself get super depressed for a few weeks. It was horrible. I was being rejected so much at work (I'm in sales) that I allowed myself to take it personally. I developed an irrational fear of my costumers which snowballed into a full scale panic attack that I suffered non stop for that time period.
My heart felt like it could beat out of my chest. My stomach in constant knots. I could not break the cycle until I realized and acted on the fact that I had to face my fears and start aggressively seeing customers again, or else soon I wouldn't be feeding my family.
The first day I did that, my panic, anxiety and depression began to melt away.
I thought all this was PAWS related. Now I have to question whether all or how much of the fatigue and depression I suffer thru daily is actually PAWS related and how much is in my head. Taking on the day as a challenge and not a dreaded task does help with my perspective and how I feel in my head but it is easy to forget to fight the overwhelming feeling and let the weight of it all crush my soul. But the amazing thing is that as long as I put forth true effort to fight for the day, even if I don't win (eg., don't make a single sale that day) or feel nearly as accomplished as I wish, I don't feel too bad. Believe me, not feeling too bad is a great improvement compared to where I've been.