I'm 38, male and still not had any, more interested in music, drugs , art and computers games in my teen college years to even bother with girls. Some people say being into rave music and high on ecstasy is better than sex. I have a lot of experience with rave music and producing it does have a good buzzrush about it or causes eargasms that rivals sex so people say if you like that sorta hedonism! But I think suffering mental health in my 20s and 30s has left me to more sheltered indoor life I rarely meet women. It does worry obsess me will I meet anyone special though, I left it so long.