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How old were you when you had sex for the first time.

Mysterie said:
u never considered paying a hooker?
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Dunno about that? Where's the love in that? Don't know any in my area plus the ones I've seen up Norwich city up the road are mingin! Prefer a true girlfriend than an organic sex doll with STDs.
 
I was 13 and she was 14. I copped a nut and pretty much was done. I saw this girl months later when we entered high school.I didn't know it at the time but she was apparently passed around or abused at home or by older men. The first thing she said when we started was, " aren't you going to eat it?" , and later when I saw her it hit me. I tried to approach her but she didn't respond. She was so sad and I felt a deep sadness for what I assumed her life had been and the labels she must have been assigned. She was the girl I should have chased. I still think of her 33 years later. I would have befriended her had she let me. We were children but she was living a full time adult life while I remained a child for some time. I so wish I could have connected with her. She was no whore.... I pray she is safe and sound now.
 
24 if I had to guess. Looking back there were a lot of missed opportunities when I was younger, but I was too much of a dumbass druggie to even really realize if a chick was into me.
 
nuttynutskin said:
Looking back there were a lot of missed opportunities when I was younger, but I was too much of a dumbass druggie to even really realize if a chick was into me.
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Ditto. Plus I had no one to help advise me on what to do. All I knew was put it in and hump. No understanding of foreplay, the female anatomy, female desires or anything like that. It all fell into place eventually though.
 
Markomarkh said:
the ones I've seen up Norwich city up the road are mingin!
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OTBC. Is Kings Street still where they hang out? Norwich is a shit place for meeting women. At least it used to be when I lived there in the 80's/ early 90's.
 
oh_yeah said:
OTBC. Is Kings Street still where they hang out? Norwich is a shit place for meeting women. At least it used to be when I lived there in the 80's/ early 90's.
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Yeah your right king street is whore land still! I ain't been there since 2004 when I did a access to music studio course there! You see these women walking around with black pimps and whores not able to walk straight because they were so drugged up. King street was a horrible place with lots of sad people with a lot of issues!
 
18... And was semiconscious at a party at my house senior year. I don't really consider it rape, they were pretty fucked up too, just not as much.

My 2nd time I was more lucid, few weeks after, it was better then.
 
Markomarkh said:
Dunno about that? Where's the love in that? Don't know any in my area plus the ones I've seen up Norwich city up the road are mingin! Prefer a true girlfriend than an organic sex doll with STDs.
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there are different types of love, one of the types is sexual. i can't imagine how frustrating it must be to not have had sex through the height of your sexuality. paying someone to have sex with them takes some of the pressure off from you. its a simple agreement that you pay a set amount of money for a set amount of time of foreplay/sex. some say momentum is helpful in developing in certain areas, if you do not feel you have the gall to establish rapport with a girl and establish a romantic and loving relationship, i think a good first step would just be to have sex.

there are usually online ads for escorts (prostitutes) it will say if they do full service or not, often there will be review sites for the girls, pictures. if u google "[your cities name] escorts" you will prbly find the websites.

people who have disabilities in more progressive countries will often use escort services, i don't think there is any shame in seeing a prostitute so long as you respect their boundaries.

i think part of what is holding you back may be the fantasy of having a true girlfriend in order to have sex. i agree it is probably better, but i think its also intimidating for a girl to take a guys virginity at 30
 
Male here. I had my first vaginal penetration at 16. She was 18 and we were in the same room with her younger cousin. She made me pull out because she didn't want to do it with family in the room. I should add that I am above average size but didn't know it at the time.

I had other opportunities but suffered from nervousness and/or performance anxiety.

My first complete sex experience was at 20. She was 25 and basically rode me until we both came. I did her more times before the sum came up.
 
i was 14 and both girls were 14. i guess im one of the lucky ones who can say that they had a threesome with two virgins for their first time :) the two girls were roughly the same age and we were all on e :D
 
K-k-k-k-ken said:
i was 14 and both girls were 14. i guess im one of the lucky ones who can say that they had a threesome with two virgins for their first time :) the two girls were roughly the same age and we were all on e :D
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same, 14 with 2 girls but they were sluts. they raped me
 
gonna get flamed for this but

im 31 1/2 and still a virgin and happy i am. all my younger friends are envious of me because of it.

hoping to change it in the coming year or 2.
 
Effeminate male, oral sex with a guy at 13 and anal sex at 14. I think I started at the right time but I could have waited. After I learned to deep throat, I enjoyed it immensely. After I learned to relax when he was in me, I liked it, but the first few times it really hurt. I just love pleasing a guy and having them want me.
 
18, female, first time in college. I had many other opportunities, but I didn't dig the guys. I only kind of liked this guy, I just wanted to get it over with. I didn't have a good time - there was little foreplay, it hurt a lot. I would have done it as early as 16/17 if I had been around someone I liked.
 
14, I didn't know wtf to do, she kept hissing in my ear "work it WORK IT!"
Work it? Wasn't pleasent, never was with her again.
Got the hang of it, eventually.
 
8 years old, deffinately too early, I remember I woke up and I felt something sucking at me and there was a big shape under the blankets and I thought a monster was eating me and I started freaking out, and the woman in question who I believe was in her thirties or late twenties, popped her head up and shushed me and told me it was ok, and then she got back to it. Its a little hazy, but I remember her asking me if it felt good and then she got up on top of me and put me inside of her and starte riding me, I remember it felt kind of good, but mostly I was scared and overwhelmed, I am sure plenty of guys would call me a pussy or whatever. Anyway, I guess I was looking kinda worried so she got off of me and then lay down next to me and told me to get on top, so I did then she put me inside of her again, which I remember felt good so I just kinda let it sit in there and then she laughed and told me to pull out so I did and then she laughed again cause I had pulled all the way out, so she grapped me and put me back in and eventually got me to start humping her by basically using me as a human dildo. I finally got the gist of things and started doing my own dirty work and then she moaned and it scared the shit out of me again and I stopped....... Anyway long story short, this went on for a while longer, then her son who was laying in the bed with us started waking up and she threw me to the side and shushed her son and told him to go to sleep and put me under the covers and cuddled me. I can't really remember her face, but I remember her hair was black and curly and she had nice big tits and a big bush. To this day, I still don't particularly enjoy beeing cuddled from behind, it actually causes me some anxiety. I also enjoy older women, which I guess is sort of Ironic. my youngest girlfriend was 26 when I was 21 and my oldest was 41 when I was 18 and I have am currently in a two year relationship with a 36 year old and I am 22. I male in case you didn't catch that. and I think my first was a little too early and I think my second was a little too late and I think my ideal age would have been 15, when I was fully understanding of what sex was, but still somewhat naiive and innocent enough toreally feel like it was something special....
 
^^^ I'm sorry that happened. She should be charged ?

Me:
Female
7 not by choice
14 not by choice - started getting high every single day after that
15 reluctantly by choice and very drunk and stoned.

Too early obviously. I would wait until I got married if I had my time again.
 
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