electreauxbella said:
thing, the amount of times a hot guy has come up to me, started talking to me and then done the whole "so who's your friend" thing
Ya know what, I've had this happen many countless times, lemme tell ya, what a fucking way to kill a girls ego and sometimes they don't even know they do it. The hot girl will always have the "fat" girl around, so she'll look good.
I know my best girl is hot, and she is thinner then me, but I quickly found out, it's about how you carry yourself. She is full of self-confidence and is quite a bitch, but it pulls in guys like a mosquito to a neon light. I obviously how I wasn't liking how I looked, didn't show that confidence in myself. However, now it's different.
There was this one time, where her and I went out, I said to myself.. okay, you are pretty, you're not fat, and it's time to let your personality shine. So I did, we went to shoot pool, a couple of guys asked to join us. After we were done, I was the one being asked for my digits and getting that "attention", for the first time. I was blown away. I could see the look on her face of 'what is going on here?' kinda thing.
Since then, I've stuck with that confidence, and portrayed myself as "frankly, i don't give a fuck what you think about me, this is me, take it or leave it." It works. We went to Vegas a couple weeks ago, just her and I. Everytime we stepped into that hotel/ casino, heads turned, eyes lit up, mouths dropped and eyebrows were raised. Given it isn't really "GOOD" attention, but it sure does make a girl feel wanted and pretty! Sometimes you just like to have the reassurance, as petty as it might sound.