This thread is a lot of work to wade through. And I'm going to admit that I skipped the second page...
Anyway, you said in your first post:
ForTheRush said:
and even splicing in someone saying "you fucking smokers" into a song....
I don't know what really went on. It is completely conceivable that complete assholes will do almost anything.
At the same time, there is a degree of economics that comes into play (and I'm talking about the economics of "time" and effort, NOT money). You are saying that someone sat down, and spent at least one half hour of their life splicing the "you fucking smokers" into a song, to play at a party, where people will be playing coordinated mind fucks with you because they think that you should use a different method to consume methamphetamine, then your prefered method.
Why would you be so important to them that they would go through such trouble to do this? Perhaps they (or some of them) were trying to play with your mind. But what you are describing would take a lot of work on their part. And normally (but not always) people are more involved in their own experience of life, than that of someone elses.
Like other people have said, if this honestly really occurred to the extent that you've reported, then you need to stay away from these losers (and they need to get a life).
But, as much as you don't want to hear this, people generally are more engrossed in their own life experiences than they are yours. And the stories you are telling just don't add up in terms of social economics.