MyDoorsAreOpen
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What, exactly, is the essence of hippie? Does this term have a uniform application? That is, are there some characteristics of a person it almost always implies, no matter who's using it? Is it a word that carries through time well, or ought it be packaged up lovingly with our graying memories of a short and specific historical time period? What is your opinion of the current people to whom this term is applied?
One thing I'm driving at is this: is hippie a solid and complete philosophy of life, essentially the equivalent of a religion, reliably able to guide an individual healthily and meaningfully from womb to tomb?
Let me lay my cards on the table. My father was definitely a hippie in the late 60s, and had a bit of beatnik in him before that. My mother was definitely a good Christian girl from a white picket fence home, but she's become very bohemian over the course of living with my dad. My dad is one of those (sadly) rare left-leaning humanitarian minded clergymen. But he never self-described as a hippie (or a beat, or a bohemian); I'm comparing my memories of him when I was a kid to subcultural stereotypes (for lack of a better term) I've picked up over the course of my life.
As for me, marijuana has been my drug of choice, and I've smoked it more or less regularly for 13 years. I like intellectual topics and art, especially the goofier and more far out ends of both. I drink espresso, write a lot, read a lot, appreciate nature and the earth, think that taking care of one's mind and spirit requires taking care of the body, and am always for giving peace a chance. My clothing is pretty inconspicuous, and not very funky. People have described me as 'hippie' and 'bohemian' (and 'raver') and I haven't objected. What can I say, I'm kind of dyed in the wool.
That said, I'm not one AT ALL for just adopting carte blanche one source's take on an issue of any kind, be it political, philosophical, societal, or in terms of artistic taste. I mix and match as I see reasonable, and I make up my own mind. One thing I never waver on is my belief that a nonviolent solution to any grievance is possible and desirable, other than a direct and immediate threat to your physical safety, or that of someone you care about. The problem I've sometimes encountered from other (self OR other people described) hippies is bewilderment, and even a mild passive-aggressive sort of disrespect, when I calmly but firmly and reasonably express a view that's not like theirs, such as being unimpressed with the Grateful Dead, or being all for a uniform national school curriculum. It's not that I'm not open minded. On the contrary, I err on the side of being open to ANY possibility. But if I've read a wide variety of sources and seen a good bit of world with my own eyes (both of which take openmindedness to do), I may just have things weighing in on my views on the issue that someone not as adventurous might not have considered. If one is to be a true humanitarian, there is really no substitute for, and no excuse for not, getting to know lots of different kinds of people in lots of different places.
It seems to me for some people, hippie is primarily a social set, and the viewpoints are kind of a diversion -- the viewpoints get traded and played like Magic the Gathering cards in that social set, but their true value in the larger world is always up in the air. This is certainly not true across the board. But just how prevalent is it, do you find?
I personally think 'bohemian' is a bit more on the mark a self-description than 'hippie', since it's a more general term that encompasses a wider range of people. A good friend of mine who I met raving says the most accurate term she can find for me is 'free spirit', and defines that as somebody who doesn't really follow any rules, including the rules of groups of rule-flouters. I'm flattered. But is that what that term actually means?
It's no secret that hippie is a word that makes some people bristle with hatred. What are the common beefs people have with hippies? How can somebody who actually takes seriously a lot of the values hippies preach about win the trust and goodwill of people who are predisposed to dislike anyone who rubs them strongly as hippie?
One thing I'm driving at is this: is hippie a solid and complete philosophy of life, essentially the equivalent of a religion, reliably able to guide an individual healthily and meaningfully from womb to tomb?
Let me lay my cards on the table. My father was definitely a hippie in the late 60s, and had a bit of beatnik in him before that. My mother was definitely a good Christian girl from a white picket fence home, but she's become very bohemian over the course of living with my dad. My dad is one of those (sadly) rare left-leaning humanitarian minded clergymen. But he never self-described as a hippie (or a beat, or a bohemian); I'm comparing my memories of him when I was a kid to subcultural stereotypes (for lack of a better term) I've picked up over the course of my life.
As for me, marijuana has been my drug of choice, and I've smoked it more or less regularly for 13 years. I like intellectual topics and art, especially the goofier and more far out ends of both. I drink espresso, write a lot, read a lot, appreciate nature and the earth, think that taking care of one's mind and spirit requires taking care of the body, and am always for giving peace a chance. My clothing is pretty inconspicuous, and not very funky. People have described me as 'hippie' and 'bohemian' (and 'raver') and I haven't objected. What can I say, I'm kind of dyed in the wool.
That said, I'm not one AT ALL for just adopting carte blanche one source's take on an issue of any kind, be it political, philosophical, societal, or in terms of artistic taste. I mix and match as I see reasonable, and I make up my own mind. One thing I never waver on is my belief that a nonviolent solution to any grievance is possible and desirable, other than a direct and immediate threat to your physical safety, or that of someone you care about. The problem I've sometimes encountered from other (self OR other people described) hippies is bewilderment, and even a mild passive-aggressive sort of disrespect, when I calmly but firmly and reasonably express a view that's not like theirs, such as being unimpressed with the Grateful Dead, or being all for a uniform national school curriculum. It's not that I'm not open minded. On the contrary, I err on the side of being open to ANY possibility. But if I've read a wide variety of sources and seen a good bit of world with my own eyes (both of which take openmindedness to do), I may just have things weighing in on my views on the issue that someone not as adventurous might not have considered. If one is to be a true humanitarian, there is really no substitute for, and no excuse for not, getting to know lots of different kinds of people in lots of different places.
It seems to me for some people, hippie is primarily a social set, and the viewpoints are kind of a diversion -- the viewpoints get traded and played like Magic the Gathering cards in that social set, but their true value in the larger world is always up in the air. This is certainly not true across the board. But just how prevalent is it, do you find?
I personally think 'bohemian' is a bit more on the mark a self-description than 'hippie', since it's a more general term that encompasses a wider range of people. A good friend of mine who I met raving says the most accurate term she can find for me is 'free spirit', and defines that as somebody who doesn't really follow any rules, including the rules of groups of rule-flouters. I'm flattered. But is that what that term actually means?
It's no secret that hippie is a word that makes some people bristle with hatred. What are the common beefs people have with hippies? How can somebody who actually takes seriously a lot of the values hippies preach about win the trust and goodwill of people who are predisposed to dislike anyone who rubs them strongly as hippie?