your favorite sex moves, tricks, tips?

[Kid Amine]

Hope this is an appropriate discussion.

Just curious to see what some of you guys (and ladies) do to drive your partners wild.

One move I find gets things going is 360 degree pelvic motions, where the walls of the lady's vagina are explored with the penis by, without necessarily thrusting, gyrating the pelvis 360 degrees. Don't know if there are nerves inside the canal, or whether the motion just causes stimulation of the "g" (Gräfenberg) spot, and stimulates whichever nerves are around the outside, including the clitorus?

I read (a few minutes ago, lol) applying pressure to the lady's front/anterior labial commisure (just above the clitoral hood) while stimulating the clitorus adds to her oral plessure?

I've also had a partner who did kegel exercises, so could make the vagina grip the penis much more tightly when contracting the muscles.

My gf and I call this "stirring the (honey) pot". She'll even say "ooh, baby, stir the pot", and I do exactly as you describe.

Too many moves to list a favorite/best, but locking my arms and hands around my partner's waist, thighs and legs when they are about to orgasm so they cant squirm away, you go from the passive/bottom/submissive role to the top or aggressor, in charge. Also enjoy clenching my ass by bearing down and locking my feet together and flexing my thighs inward to really increase my tightness; Ive never gotten anything but a positive, if not startled, verbal reply, and a very quick orgasm after.

Giving oral with the bridge/tip of my nose and talking dirty - always works and elicits a "how the fuck did you do that?" reply after.

Pain vs pleasure. Imagine sex as a graph, with time as the x axis and pleasure as the y. The line would run roughly straight and up until orgasm, where it spikes sharply, then falls off. Interspersing moments of pain during sex causes that pleasure line to have a steeper slope, and much higher peak. As long as the pain stays on the trailing side of pleasure, or only momentarily exceeds it (like a nipple pinch or an ass smack), you have a much more pleasureable experience.

Dirty talk, both ways. Love it when a woman facesits me. and talks dirty too, like "oh, are you running out of air? lick me harder and I'll let you have some" or "I'm not going to move. You had better come soon or you're going to run out of air". "Do you like having my pussy in your face? Mmm? Yes? You want some ass too? I cant hear you, but it sounded like you want some ass in your face too. I know you want my ass in your face. I'm going to put my ass in your face, and you're going to like it, you dirty boy. Ah yeah, my ass is in your face now. I know you like my ass, dont you?".

Repeating the same lines over and over, with slight variation, can make someone cum VERY hard and very quickly. La petite mort, fucking or being fucked unconscious, is taking things to a level most people dont experience (and breath play like facesitting is not a requirement at all).

 

[Clitnhawk]

@ B-G : she's bare, and doesn't want you or anyone going down on her... yeah, that IS A WASTE! I wouldn't be coming back for 2nds with her.

@Kid-Amine : yeah, its fun to lock their body down and fuck the hell of her like a little rag doll. During sex, women tend to be more submissive - in a good way. And that loss of control is a turn on.

The dirty talk, that's not my book... in either direction. Sounds like porn. I rarely do it or its only a little bit... I dunno, it doesn't work for me to have a woman "tell me what I'm thinking about". I lose erection when a woman does that... it make me feel like I'm fucking a whore, who wants to get me off quicker, so she can get paid and go. I've never paid for a whore thou.

 

[smackydowners]

kiss, suck, squeeze and nibble anywhere it tickles!

 

[Kid Amine]

@ B-G : she's bare, and doesn't want you or anyone going down on her... yeah, that IS A WASTE! I wouldn't be coming back for 2nds with her.

@Kid-Amine : yeah, its fun to lock their body down and fuck the hell of her like a little rag doll. During sex, women tend to be more submissive - in a good way. And that loss of control is a turn on.

The dirty talk, that's not my book... in either direction. Sounds like porn. I rarely do it or its only a little bit... I dunno, it doesn't work for me to have a woman "tell me what I'm thinking about". I lose erection when a woman does that... it make me feel like I'm fucking a whore, who wants to get me off quicker, so she can get paid and go. I've never paid for a whore thou.

Yeah, not the cheap shitty dirty talk like "Oh big boy, fuck me" or "OMG you are so big!". bitch, Im average, maybe less so, so dont tell me that shit. But, in teh right amounts, said the right way, dirty talk is beyond hot, especially when it's unexpected. I dont dirty talk like any male actor Ive seen, or female, more like reading them a romance novel written in the first person; soft, in her ear, stepping back to talk breaths (because breathing in someone's ear is a huge turnoff, for me anyway). You gotta find what works, if anything, sometimes the visceral trumps the audible. One recent encounter, she grabbed me by the throat, which was confusing - I didnt instantly know if she meant stop or fuck me until you split me in half - her orgasm a moment later confirmed the former (and cutting off someone's airway is generally probably construed as a "STOP!" but Im kinky enough to have thought differently, if only for the moment).

 

[samnslumberland]

There are a few things that my boyfriend does for/to me that I recommend. (1) Sometimes when having sex, he'll place his hand over my bladder and apply some pressure, which increases the intensity and frequency of my orgasms. (2) He grabs ahold of my ankles while they're on his shoulders and rocks my hips back and forth as well as side to side while he's inside of me...oh my god. (3) My current favorite is when I'm on top and he grabs my wrists, pins them behind my back, and then thrusts really hard and fast underneath me. (4) He'll gently choke me with his forearm when he's thrusting from behind and the head rush due to lack of air combined with hard, deep, quick penetration is incredible. Wooh, I'm ready for my boyfriend to come home from work now.