Venting Yelling and stomping in relationships

[VerbalTruist]

How do you handle someone who yells, screams and stomps in a relationship?

When my wife and I were learning how to argue I would throw temper tantrums… I know really mature as an adult. Anyway, she would let me finish and then calmly ask me “Did that make you feel better?”

Which of course my response was usually, “No.” Her lack of a response really pissed me off. Once I realized that I couldn’t get her to engage, I changed my tack and now we have very adult discussions.

It took her about 2 years. Changed how I dealt with conflict. Love that woman. She totally helped me grow as an adult.

 

[tubgirl.jpg]

The first time it happened, I chuckled and walked away.
The second time, I said cut that shit out, we're not kids.
The third time, I cut contact. I don't have time to raise adults into decent, functional human beings.

 

[VerbalTruist]

I think she droped a small turdball in my bed durin one xoit... where the f*cking restecp??!

Maybe it wass me, but i trust my ass enough to tell me the truth

You can’t have a person push you to do better?

 

[arrall]

I think she droped a small turdball in my bed durin one xoit... where the f*cking restecp??!

Maybe it wass me, but i trust my ass enough to tell me the truth

Can you repeat that in English please?

 

[VerbalTruist]

I already got you and arrall, girl

@arrall & I have each other. Try coherent posts.

 

[jasperkent]

Try coherent posts.

From what I've seen, lot of posters should heed this advice.

 

[Shady's Fox]

Also, this woman has a Masters in Linguistics and Literature. So when she throws a fit, her words go straight through the heart.

all high school girls more or less go on an adventure to the language academy ahaha

is like that damn feelin u get when u have dead skin on ur hands

 

[AbbeyLee]

all high school girls more or less go on an adventure to the language academy ahaha

is like that damn feelin u get when u have dead skin on ur hands

She went to a private school in the Swiss Alps then Zurich University. Not a "high school adventure to the language academy"!!

I have no idea how that relates to dead skin on your hands.

 

[tubgirl.jpg]

I have no idea how that relates to dead skin on your hands.

You can't take Shady literally. He's like a scripture written by a drunk priest that you have to decipher.

 

[AbbeyLee]

You can't take Shady literally. He's like a scripture written by a drunk priest that you have to decipher.

I know and he's not bad at it so it's at least funny.. but it gets tedious.