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Would You Date Someone in the Sex Industry?

Probably not. Only because of my own insecurities.

I wouldn't mind dating a stripper, or someone who is in the sex industry but not having sex. If their a porn star, or a prostitute, I couldn't do it.
 
Been there done that.
I had a long relationship with a prostitute (14 years) We were very fond of each other. But it's a desperate situation and I would not like to revisit it.
 
Captain.Heroin said:
So you'd never be with a prostitute who only charges enough to get high on heroin, but a prostitute who charges $10,000+ per hour, then you'd consider it? I'm just trying to crystallize what your'e saying here. :)

It kind of correlates to you want to date the person who brings in more money than you do, not less =D
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No...I don't wanna date someone who makes more money than me - that would make me feel like shit...maybe, I've never experienced it - but that's a man's job to bring in the bacon imo..I'm old fashioned like that.

No I would never fuck a junkie whore, let alone date her, but if someone was making a good living off it, and didn't do it everyday, then I would date them at least. Nothing wrong with getting paid for a fuck, especially if you ain't got enough dick in your life!

I can't see it going much further then some dating, mind - but hey, never been in the situation.
 
No I wouldn't. I really don't have any kind of interest in that life style and would prefer somebody with a normal career.
I could understand how others wouldn't see it as a problem though. There are all kinds of people in this world and for some that's simply not a big issue.
 
From the little I've seen of it, women like that often end up hating men because they get to see the most ugly side of them. Generally, men seem to save the best side of themselves to "pure girls" and treat sluts like shit, and that is why most healthy girls would like to avoid being classified in that way. Not that it always needs to turn out that way, but I think it's a good rule of thumb. Male nature is what it is, and I'd rather be at the receiving end of a man's good side.
 
I can't believe how many people say "not a chance" and "no way". I've found that many drug users are often more open minded. I would have thought that would involve being open minded about other things. Sad actually.
Everyone's perspective of the adult industry is so negative when the adult industry is NOT negative!
 
^^^People just like to believe all the stereotypes that any woman who works in the sex industry is seriously damaged in some way, whether from childhood sexual abuse, drug addiction, etc. Its easier to make strippers/prostitutes/et al fit in generalized little boxes, then to come from the understanding perspective that anyone, even people who are not involved in the sex industry can be inherently damaged.
 
Ive never been a fan of strippers or prostitutes or anything like that. Its not like I look down on women in that industry, its a decent way to make a living. But if im going to be in a relationship with someone I dont want them doing sexual stuff with anyone but me.
 
I know tons of sex workers from pro doms, pro subs, porn actors and actresses. Some of them totally meet that stereotype of being emotionally damaged, some are pure exhibitionists, while others are working professionals in their "normal lives" (ie: a doctor, archictect, etc).

The term "sex worker" is a loose one. (No pun intended.) With set boundries and open communication, of course I would date one.
 
llama112 said:
I would have thought that would involve being open minded about other things. Sad actually.
Everyone's perspective of the adult industry is so negative when the adult industry is NOT negative!
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It is not necessarily positive either- it is just an Industry- to make money, full stop.

People dont have to buy into contemporary ideals of political correctness. If people feel they should be open minded about what should be considered 'not the norm'/deviant, or even it's opposite, then that really is just blindly, following a certain type of social conditioning IMO.
 
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I'm married to a woman who works for a sexting company.
She's awesome, and we're awesome together. She likes her job, she's important to the team and has advanced in rank and it's hillarious and good for my ego to see what some of those fools say and their weird cocks and faces. I don't have a lot to worry about, besides I trust her more than any other person I've ever met.
So I ain't going to fight that, even if I think it's all a bit icky.
Fuck, I think my job is a bit icky too, working hard to improve a machine that strips the remaining wealth of the working class, so some businessman's daughter can buy more landscape paintings and DUI lawyers.
 
Would I date an actual whore? Fuck no, I can't imagine doing such a thing under any circumstances. Plus, from an HR standpoint, it doesn't seem like a good idea. Too much risk of HIV, diseases, etc.
 
I had a fling with a girl, who was a high class escort recently.

Her morals were completely corrupted, I noticed. So it is not the fact that she has slept with numerous other fellows that got to me. It was the fact that there is not much that she wouldn't do to please herself ... that she was completely selfish and devoid of respect for others.

I'm not saying all working girls are like this, but this is my experience.

So yes, I would date someone in the industry, but no I don't think it would last.
 
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