Markomarkh
Bluelighter
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- Jan 18, 2013
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Hi there, how you doing?
The thing I wanna talk about is, why some men get laid and some don't, I think with me I was hurt badly by a girl in my late teens who I thought was the one, went out with her for a month and she dumped me then a day later then she snogged one of my so-called good mates, I wanted her back and ended up harassing her over the phone and ended in funny phone calls, I was hurt she dumped me, hurt she snogged my mate and hurt it ended in court. Yeah yeah you know the story and it was 20years ago, but I feel I never really got over it, it's like some form of trauma or something and never really had confidence to approach women again. This why I rarely go out at night anymore because I'm sub consciously avoiding women even though I would like a girlfriend. My experience at school most girls were horrible bitches or bullies tbh. You get the odd nice women, the ones that approach you in friendly way and talk to you for no reason are the ones that probably like you or interested in you and they are the ones you should be asking out. I dunno if I've been unlucky to meet someone or I'm avoiding it. I heard some men suffer from gynophobia where they fear women or very shy or nervous around them (gynonervousness) and don't ask women out or avoid them, so they just turn to porn and images of women to relief them selves because it's easy then forming a relationship with women.
I think there should be a love therapist where they train men about relationships, how to treat women, dispel the myths of misogyny or mgtow, get them out of there fears of women. Not to worry about it, these things happen naturally, it will happen when the right person comes. Just get on with your life like my mum says. But it's hard to stop thinking about it though. This is where therapy could be good.
You could even have a love therapist and a prostitute in one form as a love surrogate or something on NHS? Or a Singles Room in NHS, where men and women can meet that are lonely and find it difficult meeting opposite sex.
What you think?
Cheers mark.
The thing I wanna talk about is, why some men get laid and some don't, I think with me I was hurt badly by a girl in my late teens who I thought was the one, went out with her for a month and she dumped me then a day later then she snogged one of my so-called good mates, I wanted her back and ended up harassing her over the phone and ended in funny phone calls, I was hurt she dumped me, hurt she snogged my mate and hurt it ended in court. Yeah yeah you know the story and it was 20years ago, but I feel I never really got over it, it's like some form of trauma or something and never really had confidence to approach women again. This why I rarely go out at night anymore because I'm sub consciously avoiding women even though I would like a girlfriend. My experience at school most girls were horrible bitches or bullies tbh. You get the odd nice women, the ones that approach you in friendly way and talk to you for no reason are the ones that probably like you or interested in you and they are the ones you should be asking out. I dunno if I've been unlucky to meet someone or I'm avoiding it. I heard some men suffer from gynophobia where they fear women or very shy or nervous around them (gynonervousness) and don't ask women out or avoid them, so they just turn to porn and images of women to relief them selves because it's easy then forming a relationship with women.
I think there should be a love therapist where they train men about relationships, how to treat women, dispel the myths of misogyny or mgtow, get them out of there fears of women. Not to worry about it, these things happen naturally, it will happen when the right person comes. Just get on with your life like my mum says. But it's hard to stop thinking about it though. This is where therapy could be good.
You could even have a love therapist and a prostitute in one form as a love surrogate or something on NHS? Or a Singles Room in NHS, where men and women can meet that are lonely and find it difficult meeting opposite sex.
What you think?
Cheers mark.