Wife watches porn

[pokepoke420]

If my boyfriend intentionally went through my internet history instead of just asking me what I like, I'd be very unimpressed.

I have nothing to hide and I'd show him if he asked, but I find snooping to be an incredibly unattractive thing for a person to do. Huge turn off.

The thing is, it wasn't with poorest of intentions. I just know for a woman it would be embarrassing to admit, and she would not have admitted that! She wasn't upset, so I don't see the problem. I wasn't reading through her text messages because I was insecure, I just wanted to know who her favorite porn star was!

 

[Vagina Lover]

Some women love admitting it, dude. In Australia anyway!

My girl watches more porn than me and seems pretty proud of it, and I am in Sweden!

I guess that's another question - why should a woman be any more ashamed of watching a bit of porn than a man. But then, why should anyone be ashamed?

 

[Erikmen]

^ Right. Well first of all I think that in Sweden girls will not have a problem watching porn. If we don't - why would them?
And I also agree that they shouldn't be ashamed, no reason to be.

I think you should talk to your wife and try to find out why she likes it and maybe you both could share one of these sessions.
The thing is, do we watch porn for the same reasons? I know men can watch porn 2 minutes after having sex.

Is is curiosity? Does she really enjoy it? What type of films or videos does she like it, etc.
Make this a spontaneous move so that she feels free talking to you about other things too.

 

[PlurPsyed]

yeah, of course. Theres entire genres of porn marketed just to women....

 

[pofacedhoe]

If my boyfriend intentionally went through my internet history instead of just asking me what I like, I'd be very unimpressed.

I have nothing to hide and I'd show him if he asked, but I find snooping to be an incredibly unattractive thing for a person to do. Huge turn off.

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