Hi everyone I'm curious why my husband insist I give him blowjobs we've been married 3 years and dated 3 years I'd like people to enlighten me
There is no rocket science to the question. It feels really good. In the pecking order of things, (pun intended) a hand feels good, a mouth feels better and a vagina is best, at least in my opinion. A mouth, like a vagina, is warm and slick, like a vagina, but the vagina doesn't have a tongue. With practice, the tongue can greatly enhance the feelings the mouth provides. For me, it has nothing to do with subservience but it may for others.
I have always freely enjoyed performing (applause) oral sex on a woman and will even lick the little butt hole if that turns her on more. I've been licking and pleasing women with my mouth a long time and it's more than just pleasing her. It is enjoyable for me to do as I have learned to love the taste. Beyond that, in combination with the fingers, or other fun objects, it really pleases a woman and to me, that's what sex is about, pleasing each other.
There are women that seem to greatly enjoy giving a blow job. I've known a few of those in my lifetime and it was obvious that was true. They are aggressive with it, not in a painful way of course, and do all they can to bring you pleasure.
It matters not to me where the final product of the act goes. Whether it is swallowed, spit out or pulled out to spill wherever, all is fine with me. Those that insist on the woman digesting the matter, probably are really into control issues. Again, some women really seem to like to ingest it but anyway is fine with me.