psychedelicsoul
Bluelighter
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Now let me ask you a question?
How many of you are 100% happy with who you are and your personality? I mean there is absolutely NOTHING you would change about yourself at all? You see yourself as perfect the way you are?
I didn't think so...
Now lets get on a topic that makes my blood boil. This is how two simple words have destroyed the generation of today. It destroyed my generation and will continue to destroy generations in the future. This is a message that's destructive to society and is peddled in schools, cartoons and by parents.
That is "be yourself".
Now, isn't "being yourself" what I'm all about? No. I think you should create an ideal version of yourself and spend your life striving to become THAT person. Be a creation of yourself, become yourself, don't just "be yourself" unless you happen to be 100% happy with everything about yourself... If you are, good for you, most people aren't.
Telling kids to "be themselves" only works if there's nothing wrong with them, or something extremely minor wrong with them.
How I was as a kid
Bottom line, anyone who would have told me to "be myself" would be a fucking retard.But when I went into high school, I learned from seeing other kids like me, just how annoying I was. I met other kids who annoyed me, and I bullied them. However, that was because I hated the person I was as a kid, and I took it out on people who were similar to me. Even now, I fantasize about going back and time and drop kicking my 7 yr old self. In fact, I blame my mother for not whooping me enough with the belt and telling me to "be myself". All she did was contribute to the problem. And the teachers were wrong for defending me. They should have let those kids beat me 7 ways from sunday until I learned.
I remember when I was first realizing that I was the one with the problem. I was actually watching Fosters on cartoon network. I saw the first episode with Goo... y'all early 2000s kids know what the fuck I'm talk about. I saw a character who was me... Goo was just like me as a kid. And what happened in the end, her behavior almost drove away her only friend. And what was the message? BE YOURSELF!!! How the hell does that work? Even after "being herself" nearly costed her friendship, the message was still "be yourself", not... Stop being a hyperactive nut ball or you'll never have any friends.
This message also makes people feel self-entitled. You're free to be yourself, but you're not entitled to acceptance by others. This mentality has led to the LGBT movement and it's crusade against religious freedom. People feel that they should always "be themselves" and that if someone else has a problem then they should be forced to tolerate it. This isn't a gay thing however... EVERYONE is getting that mentality. It seems like everyone on the planet wants to be themselves, but when other people don't like who you choose to be you wanna change them. People like me who identify as ex-bi or ex-gay are also mocked in society because of it's stupid "be yourself" mentality.
How many of you are 100% happy with who you are and your personality? I mean there is absolutely NOTHING you would change about yourself at all? You see yourself as perfect the way you are?
I didn't think so...
Now lets get on a topic that makes my blood boil. This is how two simple words have destroyed the generation of today. It destroyed my generation and will continue to destroy generations in the future. This is a message that's destructive to society and is peddled in schools, cartoons and by parents.
That is "be yourself".
Now, isn't "being yourself" what I'm all about? No. I think you should create an ideal version of yourself and spend your life striving to become THAT person. Be a creation of yourself, become yourself, don't just "be yourself" unless you happen to be 100% happy with everything about yourself... If you are, good for you, most people aren't.
Telling kids to "be themselves" only works if there's nothing wrong with them, or something extremely minor wrong with them.
How I was as a kid
When I was a kid, my mom told me to be myself, and I resent her for it to this day. I resent the lies that were fed to me through cartoons and the self-esteem building lies society peddles to kids.
I had zero social skills, I had freakish repetitive behavior like mimicking sounds, repeating words and phrases all the time, running in circles, spinning around for hours, yellings, laughing for no reason, I couldn't make eye contact, I couldn't hold a conversation, I was disinterested in everything other kids liked so I had nothing to talk about, I was hyperactive, I played pretend by myself, I had no friends, I felt awkward in social situations, I was constantly parinoid about being used by others, I was aggressive and unpredictable, I had so much energy that I couldn't stop bothering people randomly. Bizzarre attention seeking behavior...
I would jump up and down and yell and scream, when the other kids got annoyed I had too much energy to stop. I'd talk about whatever, the conversation could go from aliens, to food, to zombies, to video games within the span of 3 sentences. Unstandably the kids hated and bullied me, which I deserved.
I had zero social skills, I had freakish repetitive behavior like mimicking sounds, repeating words and phrases all the time, running in circles, spinning around for hours, yellings, laughing for no reason, I couldn't make eye contact, I couldn't hold a conversation, I was disinterested in everything other kids liked so I had nothing to talk about, I was hyperactive, I played pretend by myself, I had no friends, I felt awkward in social situations, I was constantly parinoid about being used by others, I was aggressive and unpredictable, I had so much energy that I couldn't stop bothering people randomly. Bizzarre attention seeking behavior...
I would jump up and down and yell and scream, when the other kids got annoyed I had too much energy to stop. I'd talk about whatever, the conversation could go from aliens, to food, to zombies, to video games within the span of 3 sentences. Unstandably the kids hated and bullied me, which I deserved.
I remember when I was first realizing that I was the one with the problem. I was actually watching Fosters on cartoon network. I saw the first episode with Goo... y'all early 2000s kids know what the fuck I'm talk about. I saw a character who was me... Goo was just like me as a kid. And what happened in the end, her behavior almost drove away her only friend. And what was the message? BE YOURSELF!!! How the hell does that work? Even after "being herself" nearly costed her friendship, the message was still "be yourself", not... Stop being a hyperactive nut ball or you'll never have any friends.
This message also makes people feel self-entitled. You're free to be yourself, but you're not entitled to acceptance by others. This mentality has led to the LGBT movement and it's crusade against religious freedom. People feel that they should always "be themselves" and that if someone else has a problem then they should be forced to tolerate it. This isn't a gay thing however... EVERYONE is getting that mentality. It seems like everyone on the planet wants to be themselves, but when other people don't like who you choose to be you wanna change them. People like me who identify as ex-bi or ex-gay are also mocked in society because of it's stupid "be yourself" mentality.