psychedelicsoul
Bluelighter
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Listen... for me, hugging is a very sexual activity. One I would only do with a girl I personally find attractive. I don't see it as some fun platonic thing.
In fact, as a proud pervert, I can joyously confess to watching the way female friends interact and being very turned on. Not because I think they're lesbians, but because, for me, things like holdings hands and hugging are inherently sexual.
I know I'm in the minority on this, but I was always confused on why people hug if they're not in a romantic/sexual relationship.
I always hated hugs when I was little. I didn't mind when my mom hugged me... (until I turned like 8, and I hated hugging period)
I always wanted personal space and hugging people was really awkward and something I just tolerated but never liked. I'm a handshake guy... or moreso a fist bump guy. But ideally, I don't like physical contact with other people period outside of sports like wrestling or football. But physical contact to show affection is just creepy for me.
I could never see why friends hug. Before I hit puberty and started liking girls, I wanted no hugging from anyone. I didn't want to hug a girl until I got interested in girls. And I would never wanna hug anyone but a girl I'm sexually attracted to. Otherwise, hugging is just weird and discomforting. If someone other than a hot girl wanted to hug, I would tell them to respect my personal space.
Ever do something gross and just wanna take a bath afterwards, that's how I feel about hugging.
I guess rather than asking why some people enjoy hugs, it's probably better to ask why people like me hate them
In fact, as a proud pervert, I can joyously confess to watching the way female friends interact and being very turned on. Not because I think they're lesbians, but because, for me, things like holdings hands and hugging are inherently sexual.
I know I'm in the minority on this, but I was always confused on why people hug if they're not in a romantic/sexual relationship.
I always hated hugs when I was little. I didn't mind when my mom hugged me... (until I turned like 8, and I hated hugging period)
I always wanted personal space and hugging people was really awkward and something I just tolerated but never liked. I'm a handshake guy... or moreso a fist bump guy. But ideally, I don't like physical contact with other people period outside of sports like wrestling or football. But physical contact to show affection is just creepy for me.
I could never see why friends hug. Before I hit puberty and started liking girls, I wanted no hugging from anyone. I didn't want to hug a girl until I got interested in girls. And I would never wanna hug anyone but a girl I'm sexually attracted to. Otherwise, hugging is just weird and discomforting. If someone other than a hot girl wanted to hug, I would tell them to respect my personal space.
Ever do something gross and just wanna take a bath afterwards, that's how I feel about hugging.
I guess rather than asking why some people enjoy hugs, it's probably better to ask why people like me hate them