This thread is 110% date rapey. Not cool to do at all! you could maaaaybe be okay doing it if you were like "hey, this is going to make you very horny", but no i dont think you not recognizing that your tendency towards manipulation with drugs for sexual purposes makes you innocent or ignorant, i think it just means you are stupid, and also rapey.
Really, my interest had less to do directly with manipulation, as it was a curious it’s about what other BLers knew about the pro sexual effects of various drugs I am heretofore ignorant of.
Since beginning to lurk here, about six years ago, after edging with amp for the first time, and until today, my primary interest in the resources here has been HR related to stimfapping. My interest is focused on alternative substances to create excitement other than the ones I have personal experience with.
trigger warning: more cringe
I am fairly committed to living out my days without taking another lover. I have issues, and I am not fit to be anyone’s romantic partner by my own determination, and I don’t know when that status might change
The most effective medicine in my battles with addiction has been therapy. Therapy had led me to self-soothing and masturbation as primary tools to promote recovery and delay relapse. I haven’t pursued a woman in a very long time and I haven’t even considered a timeline for returning to that behavior since I decided to accept a chaste life. Is this sad? It is for me, I previously had a rich sex life beyond self-soothing, nasturbation, and fantasy (which has parts that are very “rapey”, I don’t fear to admit,)
I suppose what I have learned from this lighthearted attempt to be creative in a sensitive space, is that my personal sexuality (self-sufficiency) and my intellectual sexual focus (edging. masturbatory, and self-soothing augmentation) may have created blind spots when venturing outside my lane, and perhaps especially when that path intersects with the female sexuality range of interests. That being said, this thread remains open to see how it is used, and I wouldn’t be surprised if a female poster has some drug combos that might fall into the date rape and manipulation arena but that target men.