I wouldn’t care, really. I’m on good terms with all my exes except the gay guy one. I have exes of both genders, as well. And the deaf community is pretty small, I’m absolutely sure that this has happened before. Probably I don’t have the best reputation, I was known as a druggie in college and I was quite promiscuous as well, but I think I’ve turned out ok since then and I don’t really give a fuck about people outside of the few humans I care about. I learned in AA “what other people think about me is none of my business” and I really, truly believe that.