Jabberwocky
Frumious Bandersnatch
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- Nov 3, 1999
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so, I have been clean over the last 7-8 months (few slips) but recently found out my brain tumor has grown and I am going through another round of chemo; the chemo has kicked my ass thus far and has had me by the balls. over the last 4 weeks I used about 5 times and my sister heard me say something/read something I wrote and told my parents (I live in same apartment building as sister and she comes in my apartment/uses MY computer far too often. anyway, she def. told my mother because I got a big thing tonight that I am going to kill myself, that I need help, to smarten up, etc.
the reality is, this is is the best I've been but yes, I have slipped over the past week. I have also been sick as a dog because this chemo has kicked my ass thus far. I have lost about 6-9lbs in a month because chemo and lost appetite and other things all because the chemo. all this has gotten me down and out which led me to using a FEW TIMES, NOTHING like I once did.. legit NOTHING like I once did DAILY OVER and OVER and OVER! I understand family will never understand that because they had no clue and I was out on my own; nowadays I am living in same building as sister so I feel family is ON TOP OF ME and I am GETTING SICK OF IT! thats just being honest; I am a bit sick of the family being around me 24/7.
I understand its my mother and she does not want to see anything happen because she works in a courthouse and sees how drugs are killing people in the Boston area day by day but I just cant take it anymore; saying I need help, I need this, I keep fucking up, ill be dead, blah blah. OK, I heard it enough. I hear you! BUT, I had ENOUGH ALREADY PLEASE! I can only take so much; I really can only take so much.
I am going through chemo as is it and its making me miserable and now w/ her doing all this shit shes making me more miserable and I cant.
how do you tell your parent - LEAVE ME THE FUCK ALONE! I know they worry; I know they KNOW I fucked up but yet they do not realize what I ONCE WAS compared to what I am now; which is 1000000% better. but, I know it only takes ONE TRY and you could be gone; however, I am starting to lose my mind w/ drugs and family and how they are talking about it. seriously, its getting to the point where I just cant take it anymore. I already have enough in my head w/ the chemo and all the other bullshit that runs through my head but w/ this woman bitching and coming at me at midnight over text about how I am going to die, how I lie, how I do this, that, blah blah. I just cant anymore. It's making me lose my mind for real; for many reasons. so now ill take my xanny to relax because I am losing my mind and hopefully pass out w/ the Seroquel as well and just say goodnight.
I dont know.. the family sometimes puts you in a position where you GO FUCKING NUTS!
the reality is, this is is the best I've been but yes, I have slipped over the past week. I have also been sick as a dog because this chemo has kicked my ass thus far. I have lost about 6-9lbs in a month because chemo and lost appetite and other things all because the chemo. all this has gotten me down and out which led me to using a FEW TIMES, NOTHING like I once did.. legit NOTHING like I once did DAILY OVER and OVER and OVER! I understand family will never understand that because they had no clue and I was out on my own; nowadays I am living in same building as sister so I feel family is ON TOP OF ME and I am GETTING SICK OF IT! thats just being honest; I am a bit sick of the family being around me 24/7.
I understand its my mother and she does not want to see anything happen because she works in a courthouse and sees how drugs are killing people in the Boston area day by day but I just cant take it anymore; saying I need help, I need this, I keep fucking up, ill be dead, blah blah. OK, I heard it enough. I hear you! BUT, I had ENOUGH ALREADY PLEASE! I can only take so much; I really can only take so much.
I am going through chemo as is it and its making me miserable and now w/ her doing all this shit shes making me more miserable and I cant.
how do you tell your parent - LEAVE ME THE FUCK ALONE! I know they worry; I know they KNOW I fucked up but yet they do not realize what I ONCE WAS compared to what I am now; which is 1000000% better. but, I know it only takes ONE TRY and you could be gone; however, I am starting to lose my mind w/ drugs and family and how they are talking about it. seriously, its getting to the point where I just cant take it anymore. I already have enough in my head w/ the chemo and all the other bullshit that runs through my head but w/ this woman bitching and coming at me at midnight over text about how I am going to die, how I lie, how I do this, that, blah blah. I just cant anymore. It's making me lose my mind for real; for many reasons. so now ill take my xanny to relax because I am losing my mind and hopefully pass out w/ the Seroquel as well and just say goodnight.
I dont know.. the family sometimes puts you in a position where you GO FUCKING NUTS!