Throwaway12492
Greenlighter
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- Jul 31, 2013
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Ok, I've looked into several websites and they all have mixed answers and honestly just scare me a bit much. I wanted to post on a forum that looked active and had a good community behind it. In all honesty I haven't browsed around a whole lot, and if this isnt the forum for me, I can take down the post just as well. If I am really this dumb, I would love to be directed towards a forum where I could share this. We are both 16 by the way.
Here is what has been causing me severe stress for the last couple weeks. So me and my girlfriend had completely protected sex once last month with the spermicide condom. In another instant I put it in (there wasnt any precum present) for around 2 seconds and pulled out without a condom. This was soon after her period ended around the 29th of June. On the 15th of July, her period started. She was surprised and scared to have her period show up one week early. She had been very stressed before and, like I said she's 16, so we just figured it was normal. Soon after we had completely protected sex again with the spermicide condom (around the 23rd) around 5 days later she noticed some brown spotting and this freaked me out. She just kinda said it was old blood, and blew it off. I looked into things like implantation bleeding, and freaked myself out.
So I have been getting around 4 hours of sleep a night, and I'm uneasy all the time due to the stress. Before you tell me to just have her take a pregnancy test and be done with it, it's really not that easy for us to get ahold of one, and I'm not sure if I could deal with the concluding stress of her taking the test. Here is what I'm here for, what are the chances of her being pregnant? I always pulled out even with the condom on, and it never broke. I hardly thought having completely protected sex twice would have very high chances of her becoming pregnant, but the little symptom is enough to make me hella stressed. She has had 0 other symptoms.
Thank you so much for your time, I feel terrible venting over the internet. I'm just hoping to put my mind at ease a bit, but I'll listen to anything.
Here is what has been causing me severe stress for the last couple weeks. So me and my girlfriend had completely protected sex once last month with the spermicide condom. In another instant I put it in (there wasnt any precum present) for around 2 seconds and pulled out without a condom. This was soon after her period ended around the 29th of June. On the 15th of July, her period started. She was surprised and scared to have her period show up one week early. She had been very stressed before and, like I said she's 16, so we just figured it was normal. Soon after we had completely protected sex again with the spermicide condom (around the 23rd) around 5 days later she noticed some brown spotting and this freaked me out. She just kinda said it was old blood, and blew it off. I looked into things like implantation bleeding, and freaked myself out.
So I have been getting around 4 hours of sleep a night, and I'm uneasy all the time due to the stress. Before you tell me to just have her take a pregnancy test and be done with it, it's really not that easy for us to get ahold of one, and I'm not sure if I could deal with the concluding stress of her taking the test. Here is what I'm here for, what are the chances of her being pregnant? I always pulled out even with the condom on, and it never broke. I hardly thought having completely protected sex twice would have very high chances of her becoming pregnant, but the little symptom is enough to make me hella stressed. She has had 0 other symptoms.
Thank you so much for your time, I feel terrible venting over the internet. I'm just hoping to put my mind at ease a bit, but I'll listen to anything.