hi! Im amy, im 18, white... I am really attracted on black guys. I've never had sex or other things with a black guy. Im single, i broke up with my white bf 5 months ago,one of the major reason was my attraction on black guyz, and he tought that im going to cheat on him. He is my first.I don't really know why am I attracted on them(well, not on all of them,the gorgeous ones) ,maybe because of the skin colour, but definely NOT because it is said that the black guyz got big cock, cuz size doesnt count at me. I dont have black guys friends, I dont want to have sex with one, I just want to talk, touch, hug, kiss on cheek a black guy.My parents will never accept me to have a black bf, just because they think most of the black guys are lazy, dangerous, unfainthfully, rude and just white bitches have sex with them, truely unfair, is not racism, but they dont want me to be ,,hurted" by a black guy cuz im well raised and behaved.I dont know what to do, on the street I observe just the black guys, I feel bored of whites, I feel uncompleted until....well, "until" I've no idea until what. Plz give me an advice,idea,thought..anything.thanks
weird obsession. Need advice!
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Yep. Look, everyone has tastes, likes and dislikes, sexual preferences, fetishes etc. So you're more attracted to black men - so what? I'm currently seeing a black guy, and he seems to have a thing for white women so we're both very satisfied
in fact, "interracial porn" is pretty big online. So there's defo noting unusual to being attracted (or less attracted) to people of certain races. Just roll with it, date some black men, see how it feels and deal with your parents when you get into a serious relationship. I think you're turning something into a problem when really it's not much of an issue.
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I believe that's a lie, I think you do want to have sex with a black guy but you're ashamed to admit it due to all the brainwashing that was going on, but if that's really true then you're in grave danger. Do not attempt to do such a thing without seeking sex or you will end up raped/worst.
Oh it is racism, don't kid yourself. The only setting where saying this to a black guy is not considered racism is if it's a turn-on for him during sex to be told of such things. They call it racial humiliation fetish. Other then that it's pure, unadulterated racism.
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ahahahahaha wow
I'm sitting in a stuffy library (specifically, the main science and medicine library no less) at a university and I read this post and I just start fuckin laughing uncontrollably and really loudly.
I don't believe you're an 18 year old white girl, or at least not one who is being serious. Well played anon, well played.
If you by chance are...then I'm with everyone else. Just go do it. And no, don't just wait. If you want something, YOU go get it. Don't wait it for to come to you, because it might not. But if you go after it, you can probably get it.
I'm sitting in a stuffy library (specifically, the main science and medicine library no less) at a university and I read this post and I just start fuckin laughing uncontrollably and really loudly.
I don't believe you're an 18 year old white girl, or at least not one who is being serious. Well played anon, well played.
If you by chance are...then I'm with everyone else. Just go do it. And no, don't just wait. If you want something, YOU go get it. Don't wait it for to come to you, because it might not. But if you go after it, you can probably get it.
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Hello Amy.
I believe you shouldn't worry about the next step if you're in such a position. You have preconcieved ideas about other races in my opinion as in you're basing a lot of your current notions on some world that isn't quite real, a world that others have drawn for you.
You should really not try to think of race or culture when you're considering attraction, it will lead you to a really dismal kind of hollow life.
If you like someone, engage that someone. Dig him/her. Try to remove those lenses.
Hello Amy.
I believe you shouldn't worry about the next step if you're in such a position. You have preconcieved ideas about other races in my opinion as in you're basing a lot of your current notions on some world that isn't quite real, a world that others have drawn for you.
You should really not try to think of race or culture when you're considering attraction, it will lead you to a really dismal kind of hollow life.
If you like someone, engage that someone. Dig him/her. Try to remove those lenses.
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Amy you're still really young and it's natural to be curious about befriending other races. Whether it leads to a romantic relationship or not, don't put the cart before the horse if you know what I mean. Is the area you live in predominately white?
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If I am being honest I used to look down upon it in a shitty grew up in the south way and I know a lot of other people think like this. But with my mindset now I say fuck it do what you want to do. You only live once, it is a free country, and most of all racism is complete BS just find someone worthy of you.
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Cuvint de lege, daca nu vrei sa faci sex, nu increca sa pupi un negru pe obraz...lol
Considera ce vrea si el, nu numai ce vrei tu. El vrea sex 99% din timp.
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