Well I didn't say I had completely stopped
. But I've only done it 2-3 times in the past 8 years. The reasons are several:
1. I'm a parent and professional now and the risk (both legally and health-wise) of street drugs is largely not worth it. I'll make an exception if I get it from someone I trust and I've tested it myself, and even then I'll take a small sample first.
2. MDMA is a social experience, and as you grow older there are fewer and fewer people around you that are interested in joining in, unless you live in a place or social circle that finds it more acceptable. My wife doesn't enjoy it any more (too much risk for her) and so that means I typically don't either. The idea of flying solo and having to hide it from people is just not my idea of fun. Plus honestly, it's harder to get hold of for the same reasons.
3. The recovery is worse at my age. I'm pretty fit and youthful for my age, but getting out of bed after a roll is pretty tough, even with vitamins and other supplements. The sleep is never restful, and I have little ones to be awake and alert for. Toward the end of my usage of MDMA regularly (1-2 times a month?) I was getting frequent sinus infections (probably from all the junk in the air at parties, but MDMA does lower your immune response), and the last time I took some I got an ear infection. Again, the risk/reward balance just isn't there any more.
4. There is a little of the "been there, done that" feeling. I'm not probably not going to have any better memories than some of the outstanding times I had in the past at parties just dancing my nuts off to fantastic music, getting amazing neck and head massages from a girlfriend, being in a circle of friends in the same place, etc. An exception could be if my wife or a lover wanted to have some together; I try to keep a line on some "just in case" of that possibility.
I hope that is informative. There are just better options for a good buzz for this point in my life: the wife and I and friends enjoy a quality bit of bud every once in a while, or I've found 15mg of hydrocodone (when I come across it, not often) puts me in a really smoothly exuberant place. Philosophically I still don't have any problem with recreational chemicals, provided I'm smart about it, but it's just not on my radar in the same way any longer, and honestly I'm probably healthier and happier and safer for it, though I have not a shred of regret for all the good times in younger days.