I currently have a bit of a dilemma involving my girl friend and her best friend. To be honest it’s not really a problem and I’m sure most guys out there would love to be in this situation but I’m just wondering if anyone out there had any advice or had been in a similar situation?
Apologies in advance as this is a bit lengthy…
My girl friend, her best friend and I have been close for the past 10 years and there’s really nothing that we haven’t discussed during our time together. It’s also no secret (to my girlfriend) that I find her friend very attractive.
For about five years her friend was in a serious relationship but about a year ago they split up and although she instigated the break up she finds it hard being alone so spends a lot of time with us. As I’ve said, we’ve always been close and even when she was in a relationship she would stay over, be very open about her private life with us and even occasionally got into bed with us to watch tv.
She would always wear pyjamas when she stayed and then about six weeks ago we were all getting ready for bed and my girl friend asked me to comment on her friends body as she was feeling a bit down and conscious about the way she looked. I personally find this ridiculous, as she’s very attractive, intelligent; a slim, but fit size six, olive skinned and just always looks good. At the time I cheekily said something like “Well I can’t really tell with those baggy pyjamas on?” so my girl friend suggested that she took them off so that I could get a better look – we all had a few drinks by the way!
Although she didn’t completely strip off she did change into a sports bra and hot pants and stood in front of the mirror with my girl friend whilst they compared bodies. I of course only had good things to say… as you would!
Since then, she has become extremely relaxed around me when she stays over and although she’s always been a bit touchy feely it has definitely become a lot more. About a week after I complimented her, my wife went out to the gym one morning and left her friend to have a shower. At the about the same time I showered downstairs but my wardrobe is in the spare room, so knowing that our friend was in there I knocked before I went in. I waited for her to say “come in” and entered to see her wearing just knickers and moisturising her body. I immediately apologized but she just said “Don’t be silly”… seriously, if I’m in the shower or anything and you need to get in just come in, it doesn’t matter”.
As the weeks have gone-on she still continues to stay over 1,2 or 3 nights a week and we both really like having her around. She still joins us in bed before returning to the spare room but each night it has just got longer. My girl friend also generally sleeps topless which is something her friend said she did at home but thought I’d be uncomfortable with it. After reminding her that it was too late (after the shower incident) there wasn’t really much more to see. So for past three weeks she now joins us with just a pair of knickers on.
The real change was this past Saturday night. My girl friend and her friend were both upstairs about an hour discussing sex aids. Her friend hasn’t had sex for over a year so my girl friend suggested she get a vibrator. I actually bought my girl friend a dildo years ago so she got it out to show her friend. At this point I walked in whilst they were both giggling on the bed. Having no secrets between us it turns out that my girl friend had told her friend that she liked it when I performed oral sex on her at the same time she used her dildo. She also shouted down the hall way that maybe I need to step up as friend and put her out of her misery – which made me smile.
Walking back out to the toilet my girl friend also told her that I liked the ‘full Hollywood’ when giving oral sex so she’d have to sort that out before I’d go down there!
WWhen I came back into the bedroom and being a bit offended, her friend got on her knees and pulled her knickers down slightly saying “it’s not that bad, it’s been a few weeks but it’s ok…isn’t it?”
“No, that would all have to come off” my girl friend said. “So, you’re telling me if I got on my hands and knees and pulled my knickers down” (whilst she slightly pulled her knickers down over her ass and got into a doggy style position) “you’d pass it up?”
I honestly didn’t know what to say. This, as always with us, was done whilst we were laughing (and probably blushing) but still, I slightly froze and was shaking with adrenaline. She looked seriously amazing!
Playing it cool and passing it off as a joke I said “yeah, now put your knickers back on”… seriously, I’m such an idiot!
“Oh” she said (pulling her knickers back on and getting under the duvet) “I’ll have to get that sorted then”… I was still speechless
So whilst on our commute on Tuesday my girl friend told me that she’d spoken to her friend and she was a bit embarrassed about the weekend and as a result has actually booked her self in to get waxed. Feeling a bit bad, I sent her a message and explained that I just didn’t know how to handle the situation and told her that she looked amazing (smiley face). “Just a bit embarrassed but all’s good” she said. “Anyway, it’s too late, I’m all booked in for Friday so I just hope it gets your approval!”
Not knowing (again) how to take this, I my showed my girl friend the message. “How should I take that?”. “Well… you like her, she likes you… if I ever had a threesome it would be with you and her so it’s really up to you”
So that’s the situation. A large part of me just wants to go for it but there’s that small worry about what happens afterwards. I don’t want it to affect our friendship and more importantly my relationship with my girl friend...
...or am I thinking about this too much?
Apologies in advance as this is a bit lengthy…
My girl friend, her best friend and I have been close for the past 10 years and there’s really nothing that we haven’t discussed during our time together. It’s also no secret (to my girlfriend) that I find her friend very attractive.
For about five years her friend was in a serious relationship but about a year ago they split up and although she instigated the break up she finds it hard being alone so spends a lot of time with us. As I’ve said, we’ve always been close and even when she was in a relationship she would stay over, be very open about her private life with us and even occasionally got into bed with us to watch tv.
She would always wear pyjamas when she stayed and then about six weeks ago we were all getting ready for bed and my girl friend asked me to comment on her friends body as she was feeling a bit down and conscious about the way she looked. I personally find this ridiculous, as she’s very attractive, intelligent; a slim, but fit size six, olive skinned and just always looks good. At the time I cheekily said something like “Well I can’t really tell with those baggy pyjamas on?” so my girl friend suggested that she took them off so that I could get a better look – we all had a few drinks by the way!
Although she didn’t completely strip off she did change into a sports bra and hot pants and stood in front of the mirror with my girl friend whilst they compared bodies. I of course only had good things to say… as you would!
Since then, she has become extremely relaxed around me when she stays over and although she’s always been a bit touchy feely it has definitely become a lot more. About a week after I complimented her, my wife went out to the gym one morning and left her friend to have a shower. At the about the same time I showered downstairs but my wardrobe is in the spare room, so knowing that our friend was in there I knocked before I went in. I waited for her to say “come in” and entered to see her wearing just knickers and moisturising her body. I immediately apologized but she just said “Don’t be silly”… seriously, if I’m in the shower or anything and you need to get in just come in, it doesn’t matter”.
As the weeks have gone-on she still continues to stay over 1,2 or 3 nights a week and we both really like having her around. She still joins us in bed before returning to the spare room but each night it has just got longer. My girl friend also generally sleeps topless which is something her friend said she did at home but thought I’d be uncomfortable with it. After reminding her that it was too late (after the shower incident) there wasn’t really much more to see. So for past three weeks she now joins us with just a pair of knickers on.
The real change was this past Saturday night. My girl friend and her friend were both upstairs about an hour discussing sex aids. Her friend hasn’t had sex for over a year so my girl friend suggested she get a vibrator. I actually bought my girl friend a dildo years ago so she got it out to show her friend. At this point I walked in whilst they were both giggling on the bed. Having no secrets between us it turns out that my girl friend had told her friend that she liked it when I performed oral sex on her at the same time she used her dildo. She also shouted down the hall way that maybe I need to step up as friend and put her out of her misery – which made me smile.
Walking back out to the toilet my girl friend also told her that I liked the ‘full Hollywood’ when giving oral sex so she’d have to sort that out before I’d go down there!
WWhen I came back into the bedroom and being a bit offended, her friend got on her knees and pulled her knickers down slightly saying “it’s not that bad, it’s been a few weeks but it’s ok…isn’t it?”
“No, that would all have to come off” my girl friend said. “So, you’re telling me if I got on my hands and knees and pulled my knickers down” (whilst she slightly pulled her knickers down over her ass and got into a doggy style position) “you’d pass it up?”
I honestly didn’t know what to say. This, as always with us, was done whilst we were laughing (and probably blushing) but still, I slightly froze and was shaking with adrenaline. She looked seriously amazing!
Playing it cool and passing it off as a joke I said “yeah, now put your knickers back on”… seriously, I’m such an idiot!
“Oh” she said (pulling her knickers back on and getting under the duvet) “I’ll have to get that sorted then”… I was still speechless
So whilst on our commute on Tuesday my girl friend told me that she’d spoken to her friend and she was a bit embarrassed about the weekend and as a result has actually booked her self in to get waxed. Feeling a bit bad, I sent her a message and explained that I just didn’t know how to handle the situation and told her that she looked amazing (smiley face). “Just a bit embarrassed but all’s good” she said. “Anyway, it’s too late, I’m all booked in for Friday so I just hope it gets your approval!”
Not knowing (again) how to take this, I my showed my girl friend the message. “How should I take that?”. “Well… you like her, she likes you… if I ever had a threesome it would be with you and her so it’s really up to you”
So that’s the situation. A large part of me just wants to go for it but there’s that small worry about what happens afterwards. I don’t want it to affect our friendship and more importantly my relationship with my girl friend...
...or am I thinking about this too much?
