manboychef
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You truly are an inspiration NeverSickAnymore. I think I may be looking at this situation in the wrong light. I was glad for my ex to be gone. I was the one that broke up with her and kicked her out of my house...well I gave her a month to get her shit together, get a job, and move on....I think the part that maybe hurts about that is I let her stay for a month and gave her the opportunity to take my son and file the restraining orders.
One hope I hold onto is that my son is very intelligent. He will ask the right questions as he gets older, and understand why things are the way they are. I took the advice in a previous post and now i scan all the letters I send into my computer and then print them out. I am going to bind it into a book.When I was in rehab, I wrote and illustrated a childrens story for him. I wish I still had that, but I sent it to him. Hopefully, she didnt pitch it away.
I need to just be patient. Keep saving my money. I checked on the restraining orders...they have been lifted, but I still dont trust her to do the right thing. Its a very difficult situation. Maybe I just need to take the risk and let the pieces fall where they will.
Thank You. You may be miles away, but just knowing you are out there helps me keep my head up.
One hope I hold onto is that my son is very intelligent. He will ask the right questions as he gets older, and understand why things are the way they are. I took the advice in a previous post and now i scan all the letters I send into my computer and then print them out. I am going to bind it into a book.When I was in rehab, I wrote and illustrated a childrens story for him. I wish I still had that, but I sent it to him. Hopefully, she didnt pitch it away.
I need to just be patient. Keep saving my money. I checked on the restraining orders...they have been lifted, but I still dont trust her to do the right thing. Its a very difficult situation. Maybe I just need to take the risk and let the pieces fall where they will.
Thank You. You may be miles away, but just knowing you are out there helps me keep my head up.