Something wrong down under...

[PhillipMcRevis]

Okay.... So... For some reason out of nowhere I can't seem to cum when I have sex with a girl but I can definitely cum when I jerk off. So lately I've been busy with school as a full time student and with work and haven't had sex in like 7 months. I was able to have sex and orgasm like usual and I now I can't. So a month ago after finally talking my way into some girls pants after so long I was able to have sex again and I was happy but after 4 and half hours I couldn't for the life of me cum and she fell asleep...... And yesterday I hooked up with the same girl and same thing after 3 hours and her complaining she couldn't take it anymore I was beyond frustrated. I jerked off when I got home after and I explode and my balls hurt like crazy. I'm wondering if anyone has had this problem which I kinda doubt but you never know. I can't understand after hours of sex and different positions and all the sucking and fucking I can't do it I struggle so bad and I feel like I'm on the edge ready to let it go off but nothing and it's weird to feel like that where your about to cum but it won't come out...... Someone help me

 

[-=SS=-]

You don't say how much you jerk off but I imagine that's where the problem is, assuming it's not anxiety related. Too much hand magic, especially with porn, can twist your responses. Cut that out and stick to the real thing. If you must do it yourself then keep it minimal like once a week.

And 3 hours holy shit.. you must have used a barrel of lube by that point.

 

[queenbee1127]

As a girl, this 3 and 4 hour stuff sounds so fucking painful. You're lucky she let you go that long.

I agree with SS though, knock off the porn/jacking off and see if you have the same problem.

 

[PhillipMcRevis]

It may be anxiety and I don't like porn it's boring. I jerk of for like a minute and I'm done it's annoying. I don't really like jerking off I used it as a reference. It was a weird and frustrating experience the whole thing.

And yeah 3 hours required a bunch of lube and spit and I was beyond exhausted and hungry

 

[queenbee1127]

Was she making you feel good? Like did you feel close at all and just couldn't get there?

 

[smackydowners]

do you take any drugs??

is it just with this girl or has it always been a problem?

and when you're wanking off, what do you think about? how often do you masturbate?

 

[PhillipMcRevis]

She was awesome cause she was a virgin and I loved it except it felt like I was climaxing the entire time but couldn't get there like I was an inch away or something.
I only take adderall for school and that kills it I can't get a hard on to save my life on adderall. And it was with this girl but any others I've been good and these last times I jerked off I wasn't thinking it kinda just happened so quick I can't remember and it jerk off once a month if not once every 2 months just to get the old Sperm out.

 

[Abject]

Have you had sex often? It took me more times than I could count on my hands before I even got close to cumming from sex.

 

[Kid Amine]

Okay.... So... For some reason out of nowhere I can't seem to cum when I have sex with a girl but I can definitely cum when I jerk off. So lately I've been busy with school as a full time student and with work and haven't had sex in like 7 months. I was able to have sex and orgasm like usual and I now I can't. So a month ago after finally talking my way into some girls pants after so long I was able to have sex again and I was happy but after 4 and half hours I couldn't for the life of me cum and she fell asleep...... And yesterday I hooked up with the same girl and same thing after 3 hours and her complaining she couldn't take it anymore I was beyond frustrated. I jerked off when I got home after and I explode and my balls hurt like crazy. I'm wondering if anyone has had this problem which I kinda doubt but you never know. I can't understand after hours of sex and different positions and all the sucking and fucking I can't do it I struggle so bad and I feel like I'm on the edge ready to let it go off but nothing and it's weird to feel like that where your about to cum but it won't come out...... Someone help me

You jerk off too much, it's ruined pussy for you. Fear not, you just have to incorporate things into sex. For me, mild pain and dirtytalk do it.

Alternatively, you are used to the orgasms your hand produces vs that of pussy.

Sorry if it sounds blunt but it's true.

 

[PhillipMcRevis]

Before my 7 month drought due to school I was getting laid quite often and I was fine and I never cared for jerking off honestly. And when I was with this girl I was excited and it felt great but for some reason I couldn't cum after 4 hours and I was wondering if something had happened and when I did jerk off the other day it didn't even feel amazing it barely felt like anything which is why I'm so curious. School and my adderall had me on a dry spell really but I doubt it would prevent me from me able to cum.