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Size: does it matter? & Great sex and penis size.

Psychedelic Gleam said:
I'll call bullshit on this. I have neither seen nor heard of any such body size/penis correlation.
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I just know my ex was muscular and the biggest one I've seen too big sometimes...just compared to other guys who I've been with.
Hey, just a theory. :)
But I stand by my opinion on passion...
 
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drugfukkdrockstar said:
Exactly. I too have experienced the same with more smaller framed white guys having huge penises. I remember thinking to myself regularly how weird an ex boyfriend would look when naked because he penis was so out of proportion! I even once told him so and couldn't stop giggling. Of course, he wasn't exactly offended.

I will admit to something in here - I have actually turned down a guy because i felt his penis was too big for me. True story.... Believe it or not, it doesn't do it for all females. I apparently according to doctors have a small vaginal passage (and will have trouble squeezing out babies apparently, but lets not think about that right now:() so my fiance's delicious medium to large size is PLENTY for me. We're not all the same and not built the same, so thinking there is a certain expectation is really unnecessarily causing yourself grief. I remember when i was younger, i thought all guys preferred blonds with tiny asses and huge tits... boy was i wrong! I just unfortunately dated a couple guys who tried to make me think that. Misconceptions happen with everything.
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Agreed on both points... I don't want a guy with something so small I feel like I'm being poked with a pencil, but average is more than enough for me. My first partner was 6" and could for 40 minutes. Oww, oww, oww. Most of the time I was just trying to hold back tears and praying that he would come already.

On the second, there are some REALLY big surprises when it comes to guys and their size... my best friend's ex was about 5'5, 110 pounds, and had a thick 9 1/2 inch dick... she was 4'11 and 90 pounds with the tiniest hips I've ever seen, and she wouldn't be able to walk normally (called it it the "sex waddle) for a day or two after they had sex.
 
econ 2 said:
I read an interesting idea in SLR a few months ago, don't know where to find it again..

Someone said that it wasn't necessarily the size but 'the fit' that matters. I think that idea makes sense. So forget her and her porn-infused Westernized views on dick size.
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Well i agree fit matters and the last girl i tried to have sex with i was too big for her. So its better to be average than huge, plus natural bulge is a bitch when u try and play sports
 
rant*N*rave said:
^Precisely! :D


I've had a huge cock before (around 9" by god, like 7 or 8", just massive...) and the sex was good, but I've also had a completely average cock and the sex was good. I actually prefer them right around six inches plus or minus and average girth because it makes it easier for me to give good blowjobs. I fuckin loooovvvvee giving head, so bigger is not really better in my opinion. I like deepthroating, so dicks that are too big just kind of ruin everything for me. Every time I gave head to the guy with the huge cock, my jaw would hurt like crazy and I never felt like I was doing him justice. Never felt like I could do a good job... Sex also takes getting used to with a bigger cock. The first time I slept with that guy, it just totally sucked. We both still laugh about it to this day (we're still friends) because it was just so godawful. We probably had to sleep together three more times before it got enjoyable, and five more before it got really good. I'm pretty tiny, so I guess my snatch is on the small side... Another reason I prefer dicks that aren't so big.

However, there is definitely a too small for me. I'm really into the feeling of penetration, and if a dick isn't wide enough to stretch me out just a little and long enough to get a bit past my g-spot, it's just not going to do it for me. However, I think that size is relatively small, all things considered. Probably 5" by 5" at most.
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uh are you condradicting yourself? you say you like them around 6 six plus or minus but then say 5x5 is small? if so sense you do not make

or am I reading this wrong
 
I am not sure I understand the women here who have expressed annoyance at partners who go for too long, such as

"and could for 40 minutes. Oww, oww, oww. Most of the time I was just trying to hold back tears and praying that he would come already."

Why not just tell the guy that marathon sex isn't necessary?

I would have no objection if a woman todl me that.
 
well, I told my bf 20 min was just fine and he pretty much was what the hell. I'm just getting started, I need at least an hour...
 
Fjones said:
I am not sure I understand the women here who have expressed annoyance at partners who go for too long, such as

"and could for 40 minutes. Oww, oww, oww. Most of the time I was just trying to hold back tears and praying that he would come already."

Why not just tell the guy that marathon sex isn't necessary?

I would have no objection if a woman todl me that.
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You're quoting me so--

I did. Eventually. %) But when I told him he said that he couldn't come without doing it for that long, so I just sucked it up. A fifteen year old girl in love and in her first sexual relationship will do pretty much anything for the guy if she thinks it will please him and loves him... why do you think my friend put up with not being able to walk for two days? :\
 
wow.

Everyone is different I guess.

I cannot imagine thrusting for 40 minutes and being unable to come. I don't know if that is a good thing or a bad thing.
 
In this case bad. I can kinda understand what you mean, but I can't give the cop out of being my first relationship or being young or anything like that. It wasn't always bad but I remember several times it hurt and I just grinned and beared it, a time that I cried and he didn't seem to phased and just pushed for more of the same, and times it was amazing, go figure.
 
I know some of my male friends can go for 40 minutes, but it's because they WANT to. They use the appropriate muscle or some other technique to withhold their orgasm to extend the session. But if they wanted to, or the girl wanted them to, they could come whenever they want really.

Is it common for a man to actually be UNABLE to come for that long?
 
I think it's true that it has a lot to do with the girls depth too ... the girl I'm seein now said it's not that my dick is huge, but that it's a good size for her, that her last boyfriend was just too big. I believe her too, even though she is 28 and previously married I usually have to start off slow to acclimate my dick to her. I'm about 6 inches, so I'm not insecure about my size, plus I think my junk is sculpted like a statue; it should be the picture in the dictionary next to "penis". I haven't gone thru all 7 pages but another thing I wonder is does the shape of the penis make a difference? Do you ladies get more pleasure from a guy who's head bulges, or if the bottom "muscle" sticks out compared to someone who has like a triangle shaped dick?
 
OK maybe triangle isn't the best choice of words, but where the head kinda doesn't stick out and is just an extension of the shaft.
 
It sometimes takes me at least 40 minutes to come, and I'm not holding back at all. It's almost always when I'm using a condom, and I have probably already blown that day so I'm not as horny
 
40 minutes it pretty much just always a bad thing, I think. I get sore from sex after an especially quick amount of time but even my girl friends who love sexual intercourse don't want the guy to go for 40 minutes... I mean, try to last for at least 7 but never met a girl who wanted to go more than 25....

So yeah, I did a lot of giving-head-for-a-while-then-transition-STRAIGHT-into-sexual-intercourse in that relationship. Cut down on the time I had to be in pain 50% and he enjoyed it.
 
^ My last girlfriend, the thing that turned her on the most was this - just lying next to each other, exploring each other's bodies, me teasing and touching her everywhere and getting her really wet. She loved sex and all, but she really just got off on this, probably the intimacy more than just me touching her erogenous zones. She knew I loved it just as much, because she had such a beautiful, full body to explore. I'd tell her so whilst we did it, drive her wild.

After about half an hour of this I was usually so damn aroused by the time we worked up to our awesome sensual sex, I might only last a little while :p But generally we'd last a fair while, since it was slow and sensual... gradually working up the intensity. It wasn't like I was pumping away madly for 40 minutes or anything.

Though we did our share of exploration, she was the sort of girl who you don't need to do anything kinky with, cos you're just in awe of how hot and feminine she is. It was like what I'd imagine tantra to be like, or the sex they have in French movies

Hehe, wow, maybe I need some time alone now.... sorry guys :p
 
JerZfirE said:
I have heard/read in many places that size isnt really a big factor. A lot of times a small penis will fit better and also not go to deep inside a woman to where it can hit the pelvis bone. Another thing was that a smaller penis is more rigid because it requires less blood to fill, so it actually allows the penis to get mich harder than a big one.
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Yeah well I have had my large share of girl troubles but I will have to disagree with your little speculation. I have a pretty big dick, not one of those 10 inchers but big and fat enough to have most women go "wow thats big" and when it gets hard, it gets hard like a rock.

I will agree with some other posters that if you dont use it properly, it will end up hurting the girl and I have had times when i was too drunk and wreck less that she had to call it quits, which made me feel bad.
 
As long as you don't have a micro penis, like a cock that's 1-3 inches when fully hard, size doesn't matter.

A friend of mine he got with a dude that is horse hung that was 9.5"x8.0" (my friend is a size queen) and the horse hung guy couldn't even get fully hard!
 
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