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She dumped me, and she updates her relationship status with another guy the same day.

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sollyv

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So, when my ex broke up with me, she vaguely just said "things have not been the same anymore, and I have been going through a lot recently". She deleted me on facebook, and wouldn't really communicate with me at all.

2 weeks later, I'm on her facebook profile and I look at some of the guys liking her photos. I look at his profile, and see his relationship status. He is in a relationship with my ex, since the same exact day she broke it off with me, according to his facebook status.

Now, I kept that to myself for a while. Couple of months go by, they break up. We start talking again. After a little argument, I lose my **** and tell her about how I know that she dumped me for this guy.

First thing she says "no I didn't leave you for x wtf"

To which I respond with the facebook evidence, and how she was in a relationship with him since the same exact date she broke it off with me.

She then just says "Woah that's my personal life, and he cheated on me so I don't like talking about it"

After I tell her that I would fully forgive her for everything, and how I apologised for snooping around her facebook, she just says "I can't do this anymore. I can't trust you. Sorry"

So we said goodbye to eachother.

Now my question: Is there a possibility that I was wrong about the fact that she dumped me for this other fella?
 
My question to you is why does it matter so much? I get the heart ache i do but the best thing you can do for yourself is move on. She isnt going to take you back and if she does why would you even want that? She is obviously as confused as to what she truly wants as you are. I would say based on your emotional response and her forcing a termination of the conversation shows she is not interested in getting emotionally involved with you again.

For whatever reason it would appear the relationship is over. Again ive been through break ups but there are other people out there and shes clearly not in a position to be considered for a relationship and should take time to discover herself and you should yourself. The best thing in my life was my 6 year relationship ending because it taught me to love myself
 
I learned that going back to an ex is a bad idea. It didn't work out the second time around and all the love was gone. You have to let it go...
 
if shes updating her relationship status on facebook in 2017 shes probably not even worth it tbh
 
Please learn how to say YES when the Universe offers to do you a huge solid.
 
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