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Sexual problem

Parzin

Parzin

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Hi there. Lately i have been having some problems in the bed department. Sometimes i can't get hard, and really often when i do manage to get hard it's for a really short time and it's really getting me down... So i decided to try out with some herbs but wanted to ask from some opinions first. So what are your opinions on them?
 
Well i had that problem for a while, i was on SSRIs.
My gf claimed to be a Dendrophiliac one time so she wanted pine cones in bed to play with.
sometimes oral sex can be fun yet degrading.
If you want you can try Cock rings or viagra or something,, altho i wouldnt touch any of that stuff.
Hope i was somewhat of use.
 
I was just wondering if you worked in the Bed Department, but no I guess you mean you can't get it up.
First question is if you are taking any prescription meds.
Anything that regulates serotonin levels can have an effect on your libido.
Second question is if you are using drugs of any kind.
Third question is if you general health is kid and how old are you.
Fourth question is about your relationship (desire for the other partner)
Fifth question is can you get an erection if you masturbate
By going systematically through these questions you should be able to pinpoint where your problems lie.
Best wishes
 
Well I had this problem to, as I was on a laundry list of meds that promote impotence. All I had to do was go to my gp and ask for silindifil. Got a script for 100mg tablets up to 84 before I had to get a new script.
 
Parzin said:
Hi there. Lately i have been having some problems in the bed department. Sometimes i can't get hard, and really often when i do manage to get hard it's for a really short time and it's really getting me down... So i decided to try out with some herbs but wanted to ask from some opinions first. So what are your opinions on them?
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It sounds like performance anxiety or substance-related issues. The erection has too many variables to pinpoint a cause, but if you can achieve a full, hard erection spontaneously (eg. at night) or by masturbation, then you're physically fine. It could be to do with stress, diet, sleep, exercise, any number of things, but if you're generally healthy and aren't on any meds that can affect that, then I'd say it's psychological.

I've also heard of people having difficulty getting hard due to excessive porn - you're used to specific visual stimuli, and can handle your own penis better than most women. This goes away with time of abstinence from porn.

You can "improvise" a cock ring by squeezing the bottom of the shaft as you are about to insert - the blood will pack inside, and you will maintain a harder erection briefly.

Good luck, and I hope your partner(s) understand and are supportive with this.


I have no experience with herbal or OTC remedies, only genuine Viagra and Cialis.
 
So many possibilities.

First thing.. cut out pornography. Forever. Very damaging to your sexual response. Masturbation should be tapered down too, and definitely no edging. That advice is standard and for everyone.

It could be physical or psychological, or both. So many factors and possibilities.
 
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So many possibilities.

First thing.. cut out pornography. Forever. Very damaging to your sexual response. Masturbation should be tapered down too, and definitely no edging. That advice is standard and for everyone.

It could be physical or psychological, or both. So many factors and possibilities.
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No edging? Never heard that before, I have heard that if you're practicing edging that you should only ejaculate once every 3 times.
 
The problem is not from watching porn, because i rarely watch it ... and i'm really considering going to the doctor, because i dislike the idea of taking viagra every time i want to have sex at my age + i can't imagine taking vaigra to masturbate... and i'm not taking any meds. The thing is that while i was searching for solutions i stumbled on this site Natural Aphrodisiacs and it intrigued me. Has any one tried any and what are your opinions?
 
impotence can be psychological and it can be physical.

go to your doctor
 
Have you tried kissing and foreplay with someone? Or are you trying to masturbate?
 
Cockrings, kamagra, sildslis, viagra, special diet and sport. Have you ever been at doctor with your problems?
 
could be a lot of possibilities ,drugs,meds,performance anxiety,depression,just plain anxiety issues or your not turned on but want to be and just need the right stimulation ,sometimes same old stuff can get boring,try switching things up role playing ,ask your partner to try different stuff,act a certain way etc ,nothing wrong with that at all
 
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