Sensation of MDMA during good sober sex

[Keeloverandfly]

So my sex life has gotten better and better over the years and I have learned to become multi-orgasmic like my female partners thanks to prostate play, caressing and a fair amount of masochism. I have learned to speak my love for my partners, openly and unabashedly—that is, sexy talk with my partners is not a string of pornographic phrases, rather loving praise of one another. As a result during sober intimacy with partners, we often have plateaus of orgasmic pleasure, minutes at a time and over and over, as all the while we tell each other how much we love one another and find each other beautiful, trembling in each other’s arms, with or without penetration. I and two partners (one current and one past) agree that it feels like being on MDMA, with waves of pleasure and emotion. Sex ends up being like free drugs, and I can’t even begin to tell you how nuts sex has become WITH drugs…

Anyone else get this? Why is it? Chemicals released during sex? Hypnotic sexual states?

 

[G_Chem]

I don’t know but I want this.. I thought my sex was good but can’t say I’ve ever had multiple orgasms from someone telling me they love me. Sounds cool though lol.

-GC

 

[lonelyDude]

its tantric.

what you think is what you are in that state and the sharing of energy just fuels the whole thing.

like dancing with friends on MDMA vs dancing alone.

the better you get at sex the more connection you can make the more tantric it can get.

same as the better you can keep time and dance on MDMA the higher you can get your self at a rave

without redose.

its the connection I think both to the dj and crowd and to the partner that does it.

 

[Keeloverandfly]

I don’t know but I want this.. I thought my sex was good but can’t say I’ve ever had multiple orgasms from someone telling me they love me. Sounds cool though lol.

-GC

Well let’s say that loving words are often the catalyst. Like, we’re not just sitting around drinking coffee at the time. I think it is possible for everyone, just it takes work. I got here through a mix of various things: learning to be open with my emotions, karezza, light bdsm, learning submissive sexual behavior, and most importantly prostate play (as can be learned on sites like the aneros site, ksmo, and more user friendly still, mindgasm). Mdma helped a lot too, as it showed me wild sensations in sex that I was later able to feel sober and harness and amplify…

its tantric.

what you think is what you are in that state and the sharing of energy just fuels the whole thing.

like dancing with friends on MDMA vs dancing alone.

the better you get at sex the more connection you can make the more tantric it can get.

same as the better you can keep time and dance on MDMA the higher you can get your self at a rave

without redose.

its the connection I think both to the dj and crowd and to the partner that does it.

I avoid the word tantric because I don’t actually know what it means. Any attempts at researching the word brings me to esoteric pseudo-eastern spirituality, and I get bored and stop reading. I do think that it probably does have hints of a certain sexual tantrism, but I can’t say. surely it does have to do with connection to another human being. I don’t go dancing ever but I imagine that there are similarities. Do people go sober dancing and get so frenzied on love that they feel like they are drugged out?

 

[lonelyDude]

it means to take on the characteristics of another being through trance or meditation.

its used in Tibetan meditation where they take on the qualities of there deity.

kindness compassion feeling love for all and share in the energy that there deity transfers in return.

some freaks realised that it was an energy transfer going on and decided to warp it into the sex thing that most think it is.

but its just a super imposition of someone or something elses persona on your own.

this is strongest when shared between people hence the freaks finding it.

as for the question hell yes.

take a look at african dance to begin with also I would say tantric as they are taking on imagined situations

and trancing them selves of there faces

the mind is a powerful thing my friend.

the question often is can I measure this experience externally

and if not can I trust it.

what do you think a kid feels when they walk into a toy store

sometimes people need a little kick to go back and remember be it sex or mdma but

it is all in our heads locked away in there.


I can still go to a rave or concert and dance all night and still get a feeling of euphoria.

I used to be able to turn it on at will but I stopped practising as I found it was making me unstable

between.

bipolar people do it all the time and often it can be triggered by how they feel.

you know the classic you up set them then they get way more angry than they should then crash and burn

after.

they kicked there serotonin up them selves because they felt they needed to. mostly unknown to them selves.

I found trying to do this too much to my self led to too many crashes so I am happier nice and flat.

a few little ups and a few little downs and then the big feelings come from life achievements.

master your feelings and you master your serotonin I found.

 

[Specified]

So my sex life has gotten better and better over the years and I have learned to become multi-orgasmic like my female partners thanks to prostate play, caressing and a fair amount of masochism. I have learned to speak my love for my partners, openly and unabashedly—that is, sexy talk with my partners is not a string of pornographic phrases, rather loving praise of one another. As a result during sober intimacy with partners, we often have plateaus of orgasmic pleasure, minutes at a time and over and over, as all the while we tell each other how much we love one another and find each other beautiful, trembling in each other’s arms, with or without penetration. I and two partners (one current and one past) agree that it feels like being on MDMA, with waves of pleasure and emotion. Sex ends up being like free drugs, and I can’t even begin to tell you how nuts sex has become WITH drugs…

Anyone else get this? Why is it? Chemicals released during sex? Hypnotic sexual states?

Hahahaha love your avatar...killer!

 

[maoriwarrior]

I've had this several times while sober but with someone I was deeply emotionally connected with & I'd put it down to the natural high of endorphins!

 

[Keeloverandfly]

That’s what I would like to know more about.

I've had this several times while sober but with someone I was deeply emotionally connected with & I'd put it down to the natural high of endorphins!

It’s like going through all the motions of mdma sex (effusive praise and loving words mixed with orgasmic states) makes the brain produce similar chemicals…!

 

[SpiralusSancti]

Yeah sex on MDXX can be great if done with someone you're close and love them