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FERPA and IDEA prohibit schools from disclosing your child's records to anyone without your written consent. The only exceptions are:
* School officials, including teachers, in your child’s district with a legitimate educational interest as defined in the school procedures
* School officials in the school district to which your child intends to transfer (Before the records are sent, however, you will want to review them and challenge their content, if necessary.)
* Certain state and national education agencies, if necessary, for enforcing federal laws
* Anyone to whom a state statute requires the school to report information
* Accrediting and research organizations helping the school, provided they guarantee confidentiality
* Student financial aid officials
* People who have court orders, provided the school makes reasonable efforts to notify the parent or student before releasing the records
* Appropriate people in health and safety emergencies such as doctors, nurses, and fire marshals
* Law enforcement and judicial authorities in certain cases
With the exception of the people listed above, schools must have your permission to release material from your child's records to anyone other than yourself. When requesting release of the records, the school must tell you which records are involved, why they have been requested, and who will receive them. Likewise, if you want someone outside the school system to see your child's records, you will be asked to sign a release granting such permission. All of these rules have been instituted to protect your privacy and that of your child.